You see it on shows like "Cheaters" all the time. People who cheat but say they love the person they were cheating on.
What do you think?
2006-11-29 13:19:12 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that if you truly love the person you are with you would not cheat,because like I say if you truly and I do mean truly love that person your heart is not gonna let you cheat because believe me you wouldn't feel right.
2006-11-29 13:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by carolstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cheat on anyone there is obviously something missing in your relationship and you are not happy. Happiness is an inside job and you will not ever find it sleeping around. If you are a cheater, you will always be a cheater till the day you die even if you are not and have not been active in your cheating...You are still a cheater...If you cheat, you do not love your partner and you are not in love with your partner no matter what you try to convince yourself of....Have some balls to tell the truth and give your partner a chance to find someone who does love her and is in love with her so she can experience true love...
2006-11-29 23:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by Butterfly Wings 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are different levels of love. You can love someone but not be in love with them. I've had relationships in the past where that I am forever indebted to because those individuals have turned my life around and helped me turn over a new leaf. However their feelings were stronger than mine - I loved them but I was not in love with them. I was not exclusive to only them and it caused hurt feelings. I've also had the tables turned. I think most people cheat because something is missing from the relationship they have - what they are seeking is not full filled completely by one person. Either it's best to just be honest and move on or evaluate yourself and see if your expectations are unrealistic. I think you can still love someone who does not satisfy your needs completely; however it's wrong to take that love and play that person for personal gains.
2006-11-29 21:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by ruby_razz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a great question. I think some people do love their spouses yet have addictions. The problem is if they really did love who they where with, why would they run the risk of that person leaving them? I think there will always be greed in the hearts of those who cheat.
2006-11-29 21:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is different for everybody.
Maybe they think they do. There is no real rule book after all.
They may love them at some level but it's for damn sure they don't respect them. Why the other one stays with the cheater is anyones guess.
It's not the kind of love I would want from someone.
2006-11-29 21:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by tcb9020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make mistakes but if they truly loved the other person they would have talked to them first to figure out why they were not happy in the first place. Because if you love someone you would give them the opportunity to make it right before cheating.
2006-11-29 21:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by shannyutz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly they have a warped vision of love. How is saying "you arent good enough for me so I need to find someone else on the side" conveying love?
but its become almost socially acceptable...like someone has a disease if they cheat...you cheat on me, well I am not going OJ style or anything, but dont expect to be in my life...
2006-11-29 21:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think for the most part they do. and then there are the guys who have girls as show pieces, they dont. i also think that people mess up and it all depends on the situation in wich they did cheated on the person they say they love
2006-11-29 21:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think on some level they do, but it changes with each person, & circumstance. One thing's for sure, the cheater never thinks through to the consequenses of getting caught.
2006-11-29 21:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. They may think they are in love, but I don't think they are. And I believe once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-11-29 21:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by MyName 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋