2006-11-29 13:13:49 · 22 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
not to be harmfull just to say sorry...
2006-11-29 13:14:11 · update #1
do the "he said, she said" thing
2006-11-29 13:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by ** i Am hiS giRL ** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If they have a restraining order against you, it's past the point of saying sorry. If you contact them to apologize and violate the restraining order in doing so, you may be arrested and make matters worse for yourself. Let it go.
2006-11-29 13:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Bigdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There is no provision for any contact. You cant even tell a friend to tell them something. If THEY CALL YOU, you can even still be in trouble.
In my state, you have your order valid one month, then there is a hearing for it to be extended a year. You should go to the hearing, and talk with the judge about how sorry you feel. The person with the order will be there too (if they want the order extended) and will hear you talk to the judge
2006-11-29 13:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Together 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's there for a reason so maybe you should just stay away from that person. You probably abused your apology too many times and that is why there is a restraining order against you.
PEOPLE! Even having someone speaking for you is against the restraining order. A restraining order is protection from abuse verbally too.
2006-11-29 13:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
saying sorry is more for yourself. All they want to do is be left alone. The best thing you can do for them, if you (or whoever) truly ARE sorry, is to STAY FAR AWAY and let them feel safe and not bothered by the issue any more.
Saying your sorry is more of a control thing, something to make you feel better. Usually people say they're sorry so things can be worked out. Do you want something worked out so you can see him/her again? Don't do it. Don't do it. If they ever reach out to you, that's different. Otherwise you come off desperate and stalking. Just leave it be, give them their space.
2006-11-29 13:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by Niqabi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can send them an anonymous email, but make sure you don't mention your name. Write it like this:
Someone you know would like to apologize to you, but legally they can't.
or
Someone with a restraining order would like to say they are sorry.
P.S. This might be spam.
2006-11-29 13:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by The Final Answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you actually read a restraining order, you will see that it doesn't really restrain anybody from anything. It's like a warning ticket.
2006-11-29 13:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
they gota restraining order against u because they want nothing to do with u ever in any way so back off, they do not care if u care , or that u r sorry,or what will happen to u, u no longer exist to them ,it's done , it's over ,over , over over , done , done ,done
2006-11-29 13:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does the order say? I think you may call them by phone or have someone else do it
2006-11-29 13:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by goodtimesgladly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send them an email, or an anonymous mailing.
2006-11-29 13:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by EternalBlueMemory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not if you have a restraining order against you.....why can you just leave it alone??
2006-11-29 13:15:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋