Take care of your self first and they will notice that you do. You are in school so handle your obligations in class. Do your homework, be on time for class, smile but don't be a clown, let the girls notice you...don't do stuff to MAKE them notice you. Boyfriend material is usually a guy who is, seriously, physically clean everyday, maybe takes care of hands, hair and skin a little extra...seeking professional advice if need be such as a manicure, dermatologist for skin, good hair cut or cool way of doing hair and definately seeing a dentist at least once a year. Very cool is a guy who handles his business by doing all homework and yet still able to be friends with everyone and not let others who are failing in school or life, drag them down to that level. So you first have to protect yourself from bad influence so others, like gorls, can feel connected and protected around you. Clothes and styles do not matter as much as the cleanliness, smile, good posture...like you workout/exercise, the appearance of health and leadership. Can you, do you listen to yourself, know what you want and speak up for yourself. Do not engage in gossip. If you like a girl, observe her for awhile, smile and then approach her and check in to see if she might like to do some neutral thing with you like walk home or sit next to you or sit for 30 minutes after school. Try not to be influenced by peers. You may have a connection to someone they don't like or are not honest or grown up enough to admit your choice is your choice and okay for you, even if they would not make that choice. You sound like a good guy because you are taking time to ask this question. You are also a leader because you know what you want and are asking others for advice.
2006-11-29 13:30:12
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answered by Anonymous
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I agree with everyone who says be confident and stay clean. Appearance and confidence are VERY important. What is on the inside is just as important as the outside. I always notice that are dressed well and are very chill(laid back). It also depends on what kinda girls you are trying to attract. Some girls notice guys that have name brands and lots and expensive things. You should probably stay away from them because they are probably gold diggers. You want someone that will except you for you. Don't I repeat DONT try to get girls to notice you by using corney come on lines because that is a HUGE turn off. Some guys can get away with that and others cant but like I said girls like a guy that has a good appearance(make sure your lips are chapped and breath smells fresh as well) , smells good, that is sweet and funny( making a girl laugh is DEFINITELY a plus), understands and welcomes responsibility, is a hard worker, goal oriented and is just fun to be around. Dont be cocky or arrogant or do stupid stuff that really isnt funny. Start off by maybe changing your look. Maybe you should add a pic that we could get a better idea of what you are working with and then go from there. Good luck.
2006-11-30 01:29:39
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answered by Anonymous
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you can start off by wearing a cute polo and a nice pair of jeans and some nice cologne, spend some time on how you look-shaving and styling your hair! but the most important thing is being confident and yourself and comfortable with who you are! if you are confident it shows, if you are yourself it also shows and if you are having a good vibe that others can pick up, be funny, charasmatic, with charm, with with, intelligent, know alot bout what happens around you since most girls like someone with their head on their shoulders and who is grounded! lastly, also be yourself as hard as it may seem because the only way for girls to notice you is for you to be you with confidence and charisma and have a positive attitude!
2006-11-29 13:34:35
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answered by icycrissy27blue 5
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First of all, you have to look sharp. Wear stylish and popular clothes like Abercrombie and Fitch, Armani Exchange, etc. But keep in mind that not all girls expect guys to wear expensive clothes; lots of girls just like guys for who they are.
Secondly, girls love cologne. Spray some cologne on yourself, but not too much.
Last but not least, make sure you have a nice personality and be friendly with everyone. Smile a lot at girls. They like that.
Good luck with the ladies!
2006-11-29 13:11:32
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answered by Anonymous
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because of the fact all severe college boys desire is a few butt and a woman which will provide it up. i'm particular there is a few boy someplace that's in comparison to that (uncommon in spite of the undeniable fact that) that's greater effective which you at the instant are not wrapped up with somebody at your age- it basically provides greater rigidity to existence than you desire. stay healthful, it will be worth it. have confidence me, they are going to observe you sometime and delight in which you have the values and morals you do have.
2016-12-10 18:48:59
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answered by ? 4
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I think that no matter how hard you try to get girls to notice you, the most important think you can to is to be confident!! If you happen to be naturally shy, it may be a little harder to go out of your comfort zone, but be positive and be yourself! it'l work out
2006-11-29 13:11:20
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answered by Anonymous
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By being confident, but not an ***. If you don't seem to like yourself, we have no reason to think we will like you. Be fun and don't be afraid to say what's on your mind... Girls like a guy that talks. Just not too much, because we still have a lot to say!!! ♥
2006-11-29 13:09:50
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answered by ♥ Butterfly ♥ 4
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talk to them. call me crazy but that seems to be the best way to get noticed. dont come on to them all at once. have a normal convo at first and if they keep talking and dont ignore you or anything then you might have something
2006-11-29 13:09:38
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answered by emehms 4
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Be confident but not overly confident that it gets annoying. I don't know but make-overs and all that would not work for me because its not who you are. Go talk to them, make yourself known. Be friendly.
2006-11-29 13:31:17
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answered by Anonymous
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Hi Joe!!
well......if a girl SERIOUSLY likes you, she probably won't say much. So, for all you know, you could have a secret admirerer. (h/o u spell that!)
You should wait for that one right girl. she will eventually come.
oh ya, have self-comfidence w/o being a total jerk.
2006-11-29 13:26:03
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answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3
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