hi i have a friend and i tohught she was nice but i tihkn she hates me.she treats this other girl better than she treats me.she calls me like 100 times a night and i always tell her how i feel! but she thinks i'm stupit and doesn't care! she made me cry in school, comeing out of school,and home from school 2 times! i really don't wanna be her friend because she always makes me cry! i'm so not her friend how do i stay away from her?
2006-11-29 13:04:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OMG! I don't know how old you are but i'm 11. This happends to me like all the time! They act like your friend and then they tear your heart out! I soooooooo hate that! Why do people do this............and srry but I don't know what to do either. You just have to them how you feel and if they don't care then don't be there friend that's what I do! Good luck! You seem cool IM me or e-mail me at yumyum_bubagum@yahoo.com
2006-11-29 13:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you think you should do. She may just be really lonely. If you want to stay away from her you could:
1) Turn on the machine and then answer the phone to see who it is (meaning don't pick up the phone, listen to the machine).
2) Start hanging out with a pretty big crowd, and if she starts coming, start to walk away.
3) You could keep walking away, avoiding her and ignoring her.
These are all the advice I can think of. Hope it helps you with the problem.
2006-11-29 21:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back up.
I had this problem before, too. I realized that the problem wasn't my friend, but me. My friend wasn't doing anything different, I was just jealous because at the time I had barely any friends and she was supposed to be there for me. As it turned out, I was looking at everything all wrong and she turned out to be quite the b****.
If your friend is ignoring your requests to talk about your friendship with her, then something is wrong. She's in denial about something. Be careful. Don't try to act desperate for a friend around her, because that will only drive her away.
I hope things work out.
2006-11-29 21:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to be jealous if your friend has other friends. However, if she is really your friend, she won't ask your heartfelt feelings and share them with others--?? If she does, she is really not your friend. If she puts pressure on you, just tell her you've got it all together and don't need her assurance that you are O.K. Maybe she senses your dependence and is using you. I think you are more independent than you think--be strong. If she is using you, quit communicating with her--remain aloof. Seek out people who are on a common level with you. Good luck & God Bless.
2006-11-29 21:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by conni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhhh! The joys and pains of teenage years! First of all stop crying. she likes it when you cry. Second, ignore her. Next time she called tell her your mom is calling you and you have to go. Then when she called back, tell her that your dad is waiting for a phone call and you have to hang up!
And for God sake stop telling her how you feel about things. That's how she knows how to make you cry.
2006-11-29 21:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by smarties 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get back at her.And tell an Adult whats going on between you and your stupid X friend.And it's against the law to do stuff like that in some states.If it continues call the cops.
2006-11-29 21:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by 2 Minutes ago 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang out with other friends, and if she comes around you tell her how u feel. don't let her boss you around like that. also if u are going to tell her, make sure u have a few people with you for back up. get her alone, or even tell on her- consuler/principal. i recemend being sweet and let her bully you and then get it in writing or something that she said really mean. then tell on her and get her in BIG TROUBLE- how cool would that be!?
Good lUck and Be THE BOSS =]]
2006-11-29 21:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by Katie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm are you in middle school? lol sounds like it.
stupit? yah that's stupid. hah.
if a girl is being rude then just ignore her.
its not the end of the world.
well.... maybe for jr high kids :]
2006-11-29 21:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her and tell her to stay away from you. find friends who like you and don't make you cry.
2006-11-29 21:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to avoid her and if that doesn't work talk to a parent or teacher. maybe you could get another friend to help you. or maybe even try to talk it out with her. it might not work but why not give it a try???
2006-11-29 21:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by gina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋