2006-11-29 12:37:18 · 8 answers · asked by pinkdesertrose 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
how you answer the following question will determine whether or not you ar bi:
would you like to be one of the bi woman in the bi porn film you are watching?
if you find it appealing-----go for the gusto!
2006-11-29 12:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not... watching something does not make you that way. Besides, almost all mainstream straight porn contains bi-female scenes of some kind... you can't escape it. Just because you are not repulsed and enjoy those scenes does not necessarily make you bisexual. I love to watch the show "Medium" however do not desire to be a psychic like the main character, Allison Dubois.
Now, if you view bi porn and say to yourself... "wow, that looks hott... I HAVE to try that" and then you do, finding yourself wanting to do it more, then yes, you are definitely bi. If you try it you'll most likely enjoy it, as most women (and men) who do they find they like it, so even if you are bi, what is the big deal? You've just opened another door of your sexuality which is very complicated, but do not worry... bi girls are considered really cool this day and age.
Being bisexual as a woman is a breeze, but being a bi man is like wearing a target. I wish I could be in your shoes... you get openly praised and sought after from men and women being a bi woman, while we bi men get scorned and shunned except bi a select few women privately admitting in complete secrecy that they like that in a guy. Also, there is a huge difference in getting turned on appreciating your own sex on screen rather than actually seeking them out sexually to act on your attraction. It took me years to finally act out on my fantasies which in turn became desires... and I found out I unashamedly love being bi... it's who I am and maybe who YOU are - you'll never know until you try.
2006-11-29 23:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by azcuriousm4u 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Female sexual preferences are much more variable than men's sexual preferences. That said, only you can cross the line from fantasy to reality. You are only bi, if you are being bi.
2006-11-29 22:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, but so what if you are? Research shows that over 70% of women are "bi" to one degree or another. It is very natural and I would just relax and enjoy yourself as God has made you. :)
2006-11-29 20:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
possibly, but women are very flexible with their sexuality. they can be attracted to women but not want to do anything sexual with them. if that's you, then you're probably straight, but if you want to be in the porno or something then you're probably confused or a lesbian.
2006-11-30 21:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well no not really its just how you are
2006-12-03 17:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by straight_a_popstar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-02 08:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by Kenneth R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
2006-11-29 20:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋