He's mad at me for reporting him when he made sexual comments to me. He doesn't talk to me anymore but he gives me these looks and glares that make me very uncomfortable. I don't want to tell the principal again because I don't wanna tattle all the time. So how should I confront this guy? Should I ask to be moved to a seat away from him? thanks!
2006-11-29 12:31:32 · 7 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
At all times keep a third person involved and informed. Keep a running record, like a diary, of time, place, what happened and show Principal each day if you must. Stay safe. Never speak to the creepy guy directly or alone. Do not make eye contact. If Principal does not keep you safe or listen to you, tell your parents or a school counselor or a favorite teacher. They should tell him privately that looks, words, contact is, starting now, illegal and a rule breaker where he is concerned. Do not be bullied and do not, under any circumstances talk to or look at this person. Do not send double messages like "stay away" but then smiling at him because you feel sorry for him or because you have felt safe for a minute. Send only one message to him via your actions and that is, stay away, you do not exist, I will tell on you everytime, if you can't take "no" for an answer it is because you are not thinking about me but only thinking about yourself and you are glaring at me because I said "no" to you and you think everyone should say yes to you. Normal people can take no for an answer and normal people report abuse every time. Normal people say "no"..."no, leave me alone" etc. Keep being real, keep telling, keep listening to yourself. Tell everyone. They will observe too that he has creepy behavior. Again, never speak to this person. It would be a double message, a mixed message of leave me alone and yet I still talk to you. No. Do not speak to him ever. He will take that little courtesy and think that you like him or that he can control you. Keep being yourself. You know what to do. Tell and stay away from him. Do not be polite. he will use your politeness against you. Do not be flattered by his attention. Something is wrong with him. Stay away.
2006-11-29 12:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to assert yet he appears like a nut case! If he rather is creeping you out, it would not matter if he hasn't performed something yet the point is he ought to do something contained in the destiny. you ought to move to someone like a instructor or extra powerful yet a crucial and enable them comprehend how he's creeping you out and what he's doing. He may be threat free in spite of the indisputable fact that that's extra powerful to be secure than sorry. So please in simple terms move seek for suggestion from someone, tell them you do not favor to get him in difficulty yet rather that he's bothering you with the help of observing you and putting forward creepy issues. sturdy success =)
2016-11-27 23:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow how scary.. I think you should go to a girl teacher at school and tell her you feel very uncomfortable and safe when your in the same class room bla bla.. and maybe tell your teachers to move you away from him.. if that doesnt work then you will just have to tell the princeble...
Good luck!
2006-11-29 12:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by hypocrisy_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would do for a start. Creeps appear to be ' protected ' nowadays. They're still creeps whatever their status. Good for you!
2006-11-29 12:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chin up, shoulders back, walk right up to him and tell him what you think of him. Then walk away. Be nice though.
2006-11-29 12:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by spag 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure u keep your distance, and if he's in your class then don't give himeye contact.
2006-11-29 12:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by wise girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his butt
2006-11-29 12:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by mustang_silverado 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋