Should I tell my parrents?

Question

I'm 16 and I've been wetting the bed since I was fourteen. Last year I started having daytime accidents and I've been wearing diapers all day and night since. At first I was steeling the diapers, so that no one would find out, but I was afraid that I would get caught, so I've been spending my allowance on them. My parrents think I'm spending the money on drugs or cigarettes or beer, but I'm not into any of those things. What should I do? I'm way too embarrased to tell my parrents the truth.

I think my parrents might react to it in a bad way. When I first started when I was 14, my mom found my wet sheet and mattress, and she went crazy. She said that she would tell my older brothers and all of my friends if I didn't stop. I couldn't help it, so I started stealing diapers to hide the fact.

Answer 1

You DON'T have a problem. It's fine. Don't be embarrassed to tell your parents. If you are to embarrassed to tell your parents, go see a doctor or someone by yourself. My friend is thirteen and she still wets the bed. She has a bladder control problem, and maybe you have it, too. It's fine. Many people have bladder control problems.

Answer 2

ur 16 im sure you are potty trained. but wetting the bed b/c u have no bladder control means u got a problem pls tell ur parents so they can take you to the doc. you probably have an over active bladder. also to stop drinking any liquids for 2 hrs before bed time and go to the bathroom before going off to bed.

Answer 3

Well ... wetting the bed is actually a serious problem that you'll need to go to therapy for ... it's very embaressing, but it's not your fault. Seeing as your mom reacted so negatively before, I would suggest finding a therapist first and talking to them and finding a way to tell your parents that won't have such a harsh impact on you. Tell your parents that you want to go to therapy for private reasons, and if they say no you can explain this to a therapist and they might do pro-bono

Answer 4

I truly do recommend that you tell your parents as you more than likely have a medical problem,and you really need to be seen by a doctor straight away.I know that telling your parents might be a little embarrassing for you,but at least you can find out exactly what is medically wrong with you.I truly hope that every thing works out for you.take care.

Answer 5

you need to tell your parents, dont be embarraesed alot of people have problumes like yours.Once you tell them you can see a doctor and most of the time they can perscribe some thing for blatter problumes and then you wont have to wear them at all.Pluse your parents are worried about you releve there stress be honest with them and tell them whats going on they will under stand whats going on.i hope you tell them whats going on good luck and i hope you get the help you need from a doctor and or your parents

Answer 6

You need to tell your parents and get to the doctor. if you havent always wet the bed than something has happened to you to make it start. dont be embarrassed. if you think your parents will judge you than at least talk to someone you can trust. but you absolutely need to see a doctor

Answer 7

I differently think you should tell your parents you my have a major medical problem that may need to be checked out please don't keep hiding it you have to worry more about your health than worry about being embarrassed so you can move on with your life I'm pretty sure it is limited you to certain things that you do with your friends it seem to me that you have already missed alot. tell your parents

Answer 8

You have to tell your parents because it's way better than them thinking your on drugs.Your mom is crazy if she tells your friends and brothers because normal caring moms wouldn't do that.

Answer 9

You serious with this?
Tell your parents. Embarrasing? A little, but maybe you have a a medical problem that can be treated.

Answer 10

oooh that is a problem. but you need to tell your parents because it is very abnormal for you to still be wetting yourself. when you do talk to your parents you should suggest getting a chiropractor. they help get rid of the problem. i kno someone who went to a chiropractor when they were younger because they had the same problem as you.