I feel ugly as ever! My face is broken out all over and so is my chest and I have dandruff and I feel like crap because i work 40 hours a week on my feet and I also keep having feelings my man is cheating on me with someone cute and not pregnant and big like me help and am I just losing my mind or do alot of men cheat on their gfs when they are pregnant?
2006-11-29 12:00:04 · 8 answers · asked by BigBrownEyez 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Girl i so feel you! Some days i feel absolutely miserable at my appearance - i'm breaking out on face & chest too and i'm feeling sooo fat... some days i just want to sit and cry and feel sorry for myself and wallow in my own self pity! BUT look at what we are doing! We are creating a beautiful baby inside of us - we are feeding and nuturing and keeping safe an actual real little person! Isn't that amazing? A little person inside of us!
And as depressed as i may get over my appearance/weight etc i just think to myself... its a temporary state. We are going through all of this for our little bundles of joy - so isn't sacrificing our figure/looks for a few months worth it all in the end?
As to your b/f cheating - i'm sure its just your state of mind at the moment. Because you are feeling so down on yourself you are assuming he is no longer "interested" in you and must be looking elsewhere! But i'm sure thats not the case. My fiance tells me everyday how beautiful i am/look.... i think he's lying alot of the time (cause i have seen myself in the mirror lately! LOL) but thats my insecurities coming through and has nothing to do with him at all!
If you want to email me you can find my email addy in my profile - feel free to!
Chin up - i'm sure you're a beautiful mommy-to-be!
2006-11-29 12:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Smiley One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think a lot of men cheat on their gf's while pregnant unless they are assholes. Probably no more then men who cheat on their wives/gfs who arent pregnant. I know it's rough..believe me. My face breaks out too from the pregnancy and I've already gained about 50lbs. It's hard to love yourself when your body is going through so much. Try to relax. Maybe you should talk to your bf and tell him you feel he isnt being faithful and you're concerned about that. At least get it off your chest and confront him about it.
2006-11-29 20:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by ktpb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie gimme ur e-mail and I will scan a pic and send it to you, and I guarantee I can make you feel beautiful... compared to what I looked like. You must be having a girl. Do men cheat on you when you are pregnant? Impulsive boys cheat if he's a man he wouldn't do it, especially when you are pregnant. Don't be so hard on yourself you are beautiful you are giving birth to life, just focus on being a good mom, and don't worry about the rest. I will keep you in my prayers God Bless.
2006-11-29 20:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax, it is totally normal what you are feeling. i am 38wks 6 dys prego and i am HUGE also!! i feel very unattractive and all i can think is that my husband probably looks at me and wonders where his wife went. i have also had the thoughts that he might go else where to gets some seeing as how i am not very appealing lately, but i know better then that, it is just my hormones talking! your man is probably not cheating on you and he probably thinks that you are sexy no matter what. my husband tells me all of the time that he likes how my body has filled out in all of the right places and he hopes that i keep some of it afterwards!! take a deep breath and remember that you and your growing belly are beautiful!!! :)
2006-11-29 20:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by mommy to be 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the woman has a really bad attitude, sometimes.
Usually a woman that you have made pregnant is the most beautiful thing in the world to a man; bulges, pimples, dandruff and all.
2006-11-29 20:08:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Being pregnant is such a wonderful experiance. You should be enjoying every second of it. If you think its hard to cope now wait till you have the baby. You will not even have time to shower. You will not care what your hair looks like! You will be so tired you were wish that you were working! it will all pas, and soon you will be holding your new baby in your arms, and thats ALL that will mater to you!!!
2006-11-29 20:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might just be stressed about the cheating thing...don't worry about it until you've got your head straight.Also, if you are huge, you should be on maternity leave by now! Take some time off! The pimples? Use Proactive! I swear, it works...and the bump? Baby bumps are cute.
2006-11-29 20:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U just need a rest and assurance from your man, get out and pamper yourself for the day and think about the baby doesn't that make you happy?
2006-11-29 20:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by "*♥*Nafisa*♥*" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋