how old were you when you kissed somebody of the same sex who was not in your family?

Question

you dont have to be gay to anwser this. im stright and im asking it. lol

i read in a phyclogy book (i know i spelled that wrong)that everyone regardless of sexual prefrence will kiss some one of the same sex in their life time and based on that experience it will detirmine if they wil be gay or not.( when i was 6 i kissed another boy once. we enjoyed it but didnt think much about it afterwards. nothing romantic came out of it so me went our seprate ways. when i kissed a girl for the first time i felt romanticly atracted to that person and now im stright. see what i mean^_^) so tell me what you think on the topic. i

being 2 broad again by kiss i mean like did it lead to more things like hugging,, sexual relationships u know things like that sorry for saying JUST kissing

Answer 1

I kissed another boy at the age of 10 or 11. He was my neighbor around the same age.

Answer 2

I was about 11 and living in a very catholic country at the time. Boys were off limits because you were expected to be virginal when you married. Nothing was really said about fooling around with the same sex. So many would experiment among themselves, (both girls and boys). A group of my friends were playing around and my best friend at the time coerced me into trying it. I remembered being very unconfortable with the whole thing and pulling away almost as soon as our lips touched.

I'm 34 now and sometimes I've wondered what it would be like to be with a woman. I even find lesbian porn rather arousing. But it's not something I'd be willing to really explore. I just can't imagine holding someone with breasts. I have enough of my own :)

Answer 3

I don't agree with your psychology book- who you kiss first doesn't determine your sexual orientation, because there are a bunch of gay men and lesbians who only had unsatisfying heterosexual smooches in their adolesence.

But I had my first (and so far, only) kiss with another girl when I was ten or eleven. She was from my class, sort of weird but my best friend of the moment, and we did it in my closet for little snatches of time. I don't remember particularly liking it that much, although it did increase my interest in sexy ideas- well, as sexy as any ideas can be for a sweet, naive ten year old (I think that was about the same time that I discovered masturbation, too). She moved away, I never thought about it and far later, in the later years of high school, I started ID'ing as bisexual, which I still do, although I've never been with a man or woman other than that sole experience (still a proud virgin!), and that experience didn't influence that decision (to my knowledge).

Hope that helps!

Answer 4

14

Answer 5

I was 15 going on 16! I felt like I had won thee lottery and made it to heaven. The same experience when I first kissed a boy in 5th grade. So I guess, your theory holds truth!

Answer 6

A KISS doesn't determine if you are attracted to a person. In fact, you could be attracted to someone without even wanting to do anything physical at all.

I would like to know what psychology book that was! If it said EVERYONE will do that, it is damn wrong.

(By the way, 15)

Answer 7

good question, i was kissed for and older uncle when i was little and i didnt liked it... my next kiss was with a girl that i didnt liked too because im gay and i was in 13th grade ... then the kiss that i had with another man that i wanted to happen was aroud 15 and he was like 20 and i liked a lot

Answer 8

I was fourteen, and it actually DID make it clear in my mind what I was (bisexual). It also led to a close relationship, and friendship, but I've had the same intimate/romantic feelings when I kissed guys, as well.

Answer 9

Jacob may well be extra effective than Edward in lots of techniques. at the beginning, Jacob's character is sensible. Edward's isn't. those with Edward's character do no longer exist. So isn't evaluating something real to something unreal a silly thought? Then, Jacob is humorous. Edward isn't. in any respect. Being around Edward can instruct to be quite uninteresting. as quickly as we look for ability companions (acquaintances or despite), we look for loyalty and care and stuff yet additionally we look for factors that make it exciting to be around that individual. human beings's flaws at the instant are and returned what makes them all the extra relatable and likeable. we don't opt to learn characters who overwhelm our self-esteems with their perfection: we opt to experience sturdy approximately ourselves and additionally relate to the character being observed. and unlike Edward, Jacob has a existence (forgive the pun). He does no longer commit 24 hours to a minimum of one freakin' factor. He does no longer do fairytale-ish, sappy stuff to instruct his emotions for Bella; he only sticks round her in cases of desire and that's what's the main needed. And he's no longer a stalker. So...Gary Stu or sensible guy? Your decision.

Answer 10

I think a kiss is more personal... and I kiss a girl for the first time when I was 19... and yes it is different :)