Why am i so unlucky in my life?!!?

Question

i am so unlucky.... i probably am one of the people god wanted born to live a damn horrible life...

first off im ugly
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2nd i have a unibrow and my parents wont let me remove it
3rd i just moved away from my entire family and all my friends.. just so my dad can get a better job here
4th im not smart and probably have no future other than joining the army
and lastly i have no life anymore
i go to school come back and go straight to work as a stocker at at grocery store

god damn i am so unlucky!!!!

Answer 1

you are not ugly. u are very good looking, u got great eyes and great skin first of all

second, whatever about the unibrow. u can work it. trust me, CONFIDENCE is everything. even the "UGLIEST" person could have many friends and be Happy because of his/her confidence.

third, u have had friends and close family members..that means u can make new friends. u are capable. don't worry.

you don't have to be "textbook smart" to make it in the US of A! :) and u need to try ur hardest to study before u find out if ur 'stupid' or 'smart'. read more, learn more, keep an open mind, don't get upset too easily, don't give up easily. take advantage of school, talk to your Teachers and other Students more, get some study groups together. be open, friendly, happy and POSITIVE in order to attract those kinds of people.

u should be happy u have a job. :) use it to ur Advantage. practice talking to people , making friends, or making GOOD impression on other coworkers, managers, and customers. the better and harder u work, the more recognition u will get, and the better u will feel about urself.

work at in school and at work and it WILL pay off. it'll just take time. but confidence in ur appearance is 1st step. next is your MIND. finally is ur relationships w/ people. u have everything going for you, use it! :) some people move and have no idea how to get a job... u are great to have found one already. keep up the good work~

Answer 2

I can understand how you would feel this way, you've had some tough stuff going on. I can't change what happens any more than the next poster, but I have learned that in life, many times, what I at first thought was going to be the most terrible thing to ever happen, turns out that if that hadn't happened I would've never meet the love of my life. It's almost as if life is guiding you to your intended destiny. One other thing; What a chance to help your family in tough times. A little side job wouldn't hurt right now. And the best part is that none of your old friends will see you working at the Quickie Mart with Apou. Cheer up, you are alive and that's the only thing each and every one of us have. No matter who you are, where your from or what you look like, there is no other you . Start enjoying life, it's all in your perspective. No second chance in life. Don't be held back by your self image, it changes for the better as you mature. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Dude, are you blind or what? Who said that you were ugly? Perhaps you just need glasses. Either way.
Don't you know that life is what you make out of it? If you are still in school, then stay there and get the best grades that you can. Save all the money you can while at your job. When you are done with school is when the real deal begins. I suggest that you continue to educate yourself. Education is the key to success since it opens many doors. Going into the service is nice, but unless you have a degree in something, you will just be another Joe with no chance of advancement. The service in not what it used to be. Don't be a fool. Education is your key to success. find something that you really like and go for it. As for women, forget them for a few years. If you get one pregnant, your life is over. You will be condemned to poverty for the rest of your life so keep your pants zipped up. I would also advise you to hang around successful people and ask how they got there since their advise is quite valuable. Tell yourself that you are WORTH IT because you are. God did not create losers. Those who lose chose to do so.
This is your show and your time. Dream big and ALWAYS shoots for the stars.
Go get them, tiger.
Mr. M on "unlucky in life."

Answer 4

From the pics it is discernable that you obviously have access to a bathroom and a razor. My suggestion is you use it on your facial hair, and if they won't let you pluck that unibrow then shave it. It is not the best solution but it will be gone long enough to at least make you happy for a moment.

Your dad got a better job, why? Put yourself in his situation and it won't seem so bad. His job is to support his family and being able to make more money is a way to have more security for that.

You aren't smart? Seems to me you are not smart because you think you aren't. Do people call you stupid? You are able to post online which means your smarter than a hockey puck. (Small victories here)
I was labeled as "retarded" in school because I couldn't speak english when I was in kindergarten; but I ended up with a 3.8 GPA in high school and a scholarship to MIT. If you give up, you fail. As far as the Army goes, my uncle joined it (I joined the Marines) and it was the best years of his life and says he wouldn't change a thing.

Whatever made you friends in the past will make you friends now, just be yourself and be a little more positive and you'll earn friends.

Your biggest problem is you need to stop dealing with the person that holding you back, and he is in the mirror. Change him and you'll be happier.

Good Luck

Answer 5

Well, my whole life I moved because my dad is in the military. I didnt really experiment with makeup until my junior/senior year of high school. All used to do was go to school and work at a fast food joint.

But set a goal and follow it, such as go to college. Trust me, Im not the 'brain' either, but I try because I want to meet my goal.

I never got praise from my parent's until a year after I moved out. They realize now that Im responsible and a good kid. They are proud of me for going to college, keeping my grades up, working, and living on my own supporting myself.

I used to think I was unlucky...and ugly and all sorts of stuff. Just be positive and actually set goals (lose weight, attend college, get your hair done, etc). You'll get happier!

Answer 6

Even if you think you're ugly, everyone was made a certain way and they have to accept it. I'll bet there's a girl out there for you. Okay, so you have a unibrow. That won't tear your life into shreds and destroy every living beings' soul or anything. You can deal with it, and a lot of people have unibrows. Your family and friends can visit and you can make new friends quite easily. You're good at something and when you make new friends, you can hang out more often with them.

Answer 7

You're not unlucky. The only negative I can see about your appearance is the unibrow. Just tweeze or wax it off without asking your parents. Normally I'm not the kind for rebellion, but what are they gonna do, ground you? Tell you to grow them back? That would just be ridiculous. Also, I'm sure you're not really stupid. Focus on your studies and tell yourself that you can do better. As far as friends go, try finding activities (sports, dancing, etc.) that you enjoy and participate in them in your new town. You'll probably meet new friends doing this.

Answer 8

First of all you're not ugly!
Second you're not unlucky and you must be good at something.
I think that you should be happy for being healthy and in one peace.I know a guy that lost his leg because of a reckless driver and the guy didn't give up,he is the best student at his school and he still has his sense of humor in spite of everything!

Answer 9

dude! you're not ugly , you just need to shave.wax that unibrow and shave your mustache.i m a girl and i think you are underestimating yourself in every way .in fact i think you have a pretty mouth , nice lips and nice eyes and you seem like a nice guy .second why wouldn't your parents let you shave your uni-brow? isuggest you talk to them once again about it and explain how your look is afecting you , cause it obviously is , and if they wont let you shave , shave it anyway , its your face ,whats the worst thing they can do ?ground you for it?but first try talking to them . oh something else! you dont sound dumb or stupid to me so you probably aren't,you need to sit down and think why are perceiving yourself in such a negative way .and last but actually this is the best thing i can tell you :you are very dear and very special to God ,he gave you a combination of talents that nobody else has and that makes you unique ,and your life is worth a lot because Jesus gave his life for you in the cross because he loves you . he wants to be your best friend and as you suffer in your situation thinking of your misfortune he is standing beside you waiting for you to ask him for help ,because he is a gentleman and wont force anything with you. he wants you to invite him in your heart and in your life willingly .i did annd i guarantee its the best desition i've made . i no longer look at myself as worthless or ugly as i used to, because he showed me i have true value. so my advice is that you accept Jesus as your saviour and let him love you and show you to love yourself.

Answer 10

first of all no one is born unlucky! it's jsut the decisions we make in our lives that change us and determine our present and future...

first of all, you're not ugly. secondly, just fix your unibrow! just do it even without asking ure parents! they have to accept it anyway, secondly at least u make money and the grocery store. fourth, pay attention to studies, dont waste your time and also, one can always adapt to their surronding, youll make friends soon i';m sure.