If you had a friend who accused you of something and they didn't bother to ask if you did it or show any proof that you did or did not do it, what would to do to tell them you did or didn't do it without having them tell you why did you lie to me or something to that effect.
2006-11-29 11:28:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like this person may have other reasons to believe you are not innocent.
Remember, our relationships with others are composed of ALL our experiences. So if you've done this before, your friend might have reason to believe you've done it again.
2006-11-29 11:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by jules_xcess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Writing a letter explaining it to your friend would help. Just tell them to trust you and that you didnt do wahetever they accuse you of. If they don'y belive you at first be patient, if they never belive you they will loose a friend in you. Do yopu really want to have a friend that doesn't trust you after all? Good luck!!
2006-11-29 11:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by janga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth. If they are really your friend, they will either believe you or forgive you and move on. If they continue to accuse you and treat you differently, it is time to move on. That is simply a sign that the friendship has run its course. In life, not all friendships are lasting ones. Sometimes you have to accept that the friendship has fulfilled its purpose.
2006-11-29 11:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by Meg...Out of Hybernation 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still try to tell them my story and conclude with if you were my true friend you wouldn't even accuse me of something like that. If they still don't want to be your friend after that and you know you really didn't do what they accused you of then, you shouldn't even want to be friends with them. Pray on your situation.
2006-11-29 11:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that it is beneath you to have to defend yourself against his allegations. And then leave him/her alone to waddle through their sh*t. He really isn't a true friend if he behaves the way that he has toward you. Move on.
2006-11-29 11:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick 'em to the curb and go get a new friend.
2006-11-29 11:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply let it go for awhile.
see if they come and set things straight.
after a couple weeks if they don't-then you ask them--did you find out the truth about so and so??
2006-11-29 11:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by cork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
curse her out sike just tell her i didn't do it have proof tho b4 u tell her u didn't
2006-11-29 11:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by Restricted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FISRT OF ALL I WOULDNT BE FRIENDS WITH THIS PERSON BECAUSE A REAL FRIEND WOULD BELIVE YOU. BUT I WOULD ALSO ASK THEM WHY DO THEY THINK I WOULD DO THIS.
2006-11-29 11:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her/him a email explaining your side.
2006-11-29 11:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋