well i am pregnatn and i dont know how to tell my parents i am scared they will try to hurt me when i tell them. do you think you have any advice?
2006-11-29 11:26:10 · 14 answers · asked by princess 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I believe its all in the approach, you know what type of parents you have, and if you cant talk to them, its always best to get a mediator to do so to avoid any danger to you
2006-11-29 11:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by sexyLexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17 when I got pregnant with my daughter who is now 9. I sat my parents down and came right out and told them I was pregnant. I answered whatever questions they had the best I could. They wanted me to have am abortion. Went as far as making the appointment for me. They were very upset when I told them i wasn't having the abortion but as soon as Hayley was born.. they fell in love and have been so wonderful to me and her since. I doubt they will try to hurt you and if they do, you need to contact the police. I'm sure they will be disappointed and scared for you as they should be. The next couple years aren't gonna be easy, but with their help you can make it through. Good Luck and Take Care.
2006-11-29 11:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already pregnant so you need to take a deep breath and sit them down and lay it out to them. Get serious and call a family meeting with them. I had to break my first pregnancy as a teen to my parents, but my mom got angry because I couldn't stop giggling. So, be serious and firm, letting them know that you are pregnant and inform them on what decision you've made as far as the baby goes. If you are still involved with the father of the baby; ask him to be there with you when you break it to your parents.....Good Luck; Congrats.........and PLEASE learn form this experience.
2006-11-29 11:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Babyface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have been in this situation before. The best thing to do is get both of them together and sit them down and tell them. Honesty is really the best thing. They will be upset at first, but they will get over it. Everyone make mistakes.
2006-11-29 11:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that any parent would be mad and as a matter of fact my girlfriend is pregnant to and it was hard for us but just be honest with them parents are strong and mature they usaully know how to deal with these problems
2006-11-29 11:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by Chalan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off....How old are you? If they really love you and care about you they will accept what you have to tell them. Good luck! Are you excited. Is the baby's daddy still around?
2006-11-29 11:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by bluegrl318 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you tell your parents,you should have someone you are close to by your side...maybe just to help you out.they will figure it out sooner or later (that you are pregnant).it is best to let them know ASAP.you may be afraid right now,because it is a scary situation!!hopefully they stick by your side.best of luck to you hon..
2006-11-29 11:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by First Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call your local kids help line. They really are apt to help you with such questions.
I wish I knew better but I don't so this is the best advice I cas give to you.
I wish you well
2006-11-29 11:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jeronimo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well
I really depends on how you look at it. You need to understand that no matter what they love you and will help you any way they can!
Good luck
2006-11-29 11:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is calmly tell yourself over and over again exactly what yoiu wanna say and dont do it until your fully ready and just keep saying what you want to tell them like " i know your dissapointed in me but everyone makes mistakes" and stuff like that and DONT ABORT adoption is available.good luck
2006-11-29 11:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by Brittaney x3's Holden 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋