I am in love with this guy but his ex girl friend claims to be pregnant for him. She is due in February. He says he loves me and wants to be with me but I think that it would be best that he stays with his baby momma. He also said that he didnot want it to happen, he would be much happier if I carry his baby. What should I do???
2006-11-29 11:11:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Its nasty...but trip his ex, maybe she'll have a miscarrige.
or! get pregnant with him, and he'll be like oh gotta chill with you!
2006-11-29 11:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That would mean that she is at least six months along- you would be able to tell if she is pregnant, and not just 'claiming' that she is.
Also, what kind of a home would that child be brought up in if he didn't want to be there- there would be bickering and arguments all the time, and I doubt that would be good for the baby.
By all means, encourage him to be there for his child, but don't force him to stay with the baby's mother. That won't make anyone happy.
2006-11-29 11:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay with him if she is pregnant she will always be around asking for money etc and you shouldnt go putting another baby into the mix just go start fresh with a new guy sweety if he doesnt care about his ex's baby(his baby) thats not a good example of the type of father he will be.
2006-11-29 11:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy_mum24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my goodness girl your story is like something that happened to me a few years ago. I met this guy he was messin with some other girl and I kept messing with him. She SUPPOSEDLY got pregnant, but he said he didnt want her and that he was so sorry and he wished it was me and he was crying and whatever else. I was furious because we had recently become a couple and the chick calls him out of the blue telling him shes pregnant. I was hurt and stuck around because I cared about him. Turns out she never was pregnant! and Im still with him because he and I had that connection not him and her. ANYHOW... You need to tell that fool that he needs to decide what he wants and you aint got all day to play games. Either hes with you or he aint.
2006-11-29 11:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by BigBrownEyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not need to ask what should you do. You should leave him alone. Why is his ex pregnant by him and he is suppose to be with you. That doesn't make any sense. Well all I can say is you better be careful and watch yourself. There's too many guys out here so you shouldn't worry about one guy that got his ex pregnant.
2006-11-29 11:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Need help!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you decide, Do Not Get yourself pregnant as well.
Its very responsible and respectable thing by you expecting him to be with the mother of his child.
I'm afraid if it was up to me I would most likely decide to end the relationship.
Its not your excess baggage to drag around. In the end I really think that this guy will not have the same goals in mind that you might have.
2006-11-29 11:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by ~brigit~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely believe him then be with him. Just because he isn't with her doesn't mean that he can't still be a daddy. But he sounds a little shady so just be careful before he gets you pregnant and leaves you. Approch with caution.
2006-11-29 11:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by mommy of two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would do if you really like him get together with him. But if you just think hes a piece of @*$ than don,t date him. If i was you i proably wouldn t get with him
2006-11-29 11:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like hes just trying to spread his nasty seed around....dont be a part of that...once your pregnant he'll probably leave you for another girl...i vote STAY AWAY!
2006-11-29 11:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by sarah-bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like that only like to play, if he does love you, give it space and ssee if he comes around but beware of that ex, thats only heartbreak for you
2006-11-29 11:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by sexyLexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋