okay, theres this girl, and i'm not sure what to do. we are both sophomores in highschool, and i like her. i want to know if i should choose to just try and be good friends, or if i should go for more. ps, parents wont let me date till i'm 16(feb 27.) what should i do? which one would be a better disision(spelled that horribly. choice)?
2006-11-29 11:11:16 · 8 answers · asked by Bruce Lee Reborn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Bern, i've already thought about that. I'm not shallow. i think she's funny, smart, etc... really fun to talk to and be around. The reason i'm asking is to see what others think i should do. The last thing i want is to hurt her.
2006-11-29 13:40:43 · update #1
Go for more.. you can still be boyfriend and girlfriend without going out somewhere.
If you are her friend... how could you handle the situation when she dates another guy and tells you all about it?
2006-11-29 11:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by yo mama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
FIRST and formost young man! what ever you deside to do ALWAYS rember this! she is a humaing being and has feelings WHAT EVER damage you do some one will have to undo some day! SOME ONE (if not you) will marry that girl! and will have to work throught every single issue done to her by every boy man or what ever befor he got their! NOW as you do what ever you do always rember some day YOU to will marry and YOU to will have to work throught some one elces selfishness and selfcenterdness and baggage! so do every one including yourself a favor if you actuley know her and if you care for her and want her in your life, ask yourself why? and if the anwser is any thing like "becasue she dose this for me." it ant love move on and dont do dammage that some one elce will have to clean up after you be one of the good guys be honist put her first and let her know it! if you dont want to, then just be firiends, you have to be friends be for you can be any thing elce any way! but dont send another messed up girl into the world! their are far to many all ready!
2006-11-29 19:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Bern 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build the relationship for now, ask her out when you hit 16. Much more fun when you can actually be dating and drive yourself somewhere. Unless you want you and your date to hang out with your parents, of course. Good luck.
2006-11-29 19:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for good friends, if your parents tell you that you wont date until you're 16, might as well start building up a relationship and after that, take her out. And yes, you spelled decision horribly ;)
2006-11-29 19:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by Amaris 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have pretty much the same problem, here's how I'm doin it:
Be friends for now. You might find out that she's not so perfect after all, (or not). Either way, don't start anything serious unless you know you'll stick with her your whole life.
2006-11-29 19:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by It hurts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would listen to your parents. Wait but in the mean time you could get to know her and in 2 months when you are allowed to date if you still like her after you know her more than go for it.
you are lucky, my kid's can't date until they have a bachelors degree. I told them education 1st
2006-11-29 19:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by faith 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go 4 it and tell the truth from the beging
2006-11-29 19:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by tumblekat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off..take it slow.....secondly....being friends at that age with your hormones raging is nearly impossible
2006-11-29 19:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋