Anyone else have such a MEAN sister???

Question

I asked before but in wrong place. I am youngest in my family and I have like the worst sister in the world i think sometimes!!! Shes 15 and im 12 and she is such a brat to me!!! always shes picking on me and making fun of me 2 her friends and i really hate that!! Shes prettier and gets better grades and always acts like shes so perfect and knows she so much better then me. If i do something wrong she will tell on me and i will get yelled at or punished or spanked and she think that is sooooo funny!! She laugh and call me a baby and a brat when i cry about things like if my crush is mean to me or if im upset with things or if i get a spanking. I know im supposed love her shes my sister but I really get so mad at her i dont know if i love her what should i do??? Will she always be so mean!!??? Should i try an get back at her??

Answer 1

Your sister needs to grow up it seems! Sounds like you are more mature than she is. Don't try to get back at her, don't stoop to her level... try your hardest to talk to your parents about this. and most importantly, try talking to your sister. Tell her you love her, and ask her kindly not to treat you badly.

I am the oldest of 3- I have two younger brothers- we are 24, 18, and 11. Big difference! Me and the 18 yr old brother fought quite often- but the other way around, he'd always get me into trouble- not me getting him into trouble. A lot of it also had to do with my Mom- she would always call me jealous of my younger brother for some reason, when the honest truth was I love him and am happy for everything he's accomplished in life. After I moved off to college, that's really when me and my younger brother started getting along better. He grew up more, and realized it wasn't about getting me into trouble. We can now talk and talk and talk. He now sees things such as my mom treating me badly for certain things and being unfair with me, as she wasn't towards him.

My youngest brother- who is 11, we are best buds and always have been. I helped raise him!

So I say if talking to your parents and talking to your sister do not help any, hang in there... there are others you can lean on ;) Don't get down upon yourself if you don't have as good grades as your sister- nobody is alike, be proud of yourself for your own accomplishments, not hers. And you are beautiful no matter what you think. She sounds quite ugly to be honest... anyone who treats people the way you describe her isn't a beautiful person inside at all. I imagine she will grow up, and you two will become closer- we can hope! Love her though. Be the better one. :)

Goodluck, and take care! Smile!

Answer 2

my sister was like that when we were younger (im 21 now) i was the oldest and i was always in trouble because she 80% of the time it was her. shes still a brat but i wouldnt have it any other way i came out the better person. i went to uni am nearly married and bout to start a family. my sister on the other hand is in a deadend job with nothing going for her. (we still dont get on for many serious reasons)

dont try an get back at her she will get you in more trouble. i tried to and she told her teacher and i was humiliated in front of her whole class.

its true the say that if some one does something bad it comes back on them three times as bad.

she will get whats coming but it will be fair and you wont need to do a thing!
i remember my sister tried to get me in touble by planting 'stolen goods' in my bag from my mums purse ( a £20). she was caught out as i hadnt been there all day and pointed out i put it there this morning before i left when it had only gone in the afternoon. she was grounded for a month and was banned from any pocket money for 3 months as my mum said it was intrest on her 'theft'.
and you sister aint that bad mine was evil.

Answer 3

I don't have a sister but I have a older brother, who when we were younger made fun of me as well. Older brothers and sisters tend to do this alot and can be very cruel. My brother would call me Carrot top and bozo the clown because of my hair color and beat me up all the time. It does get better my brother is 30 now and I am 25 and we are the best of friends now. You will love your sister but right now she is acting like a mean person to show off. But one day she will ask your forgiveness
hang in there sweetie it wil get better.

Answer 4

I am youngest. My sister is a year and a half older then me and she was a mean one. I always thought she was pretty and smarter and all that and it made it so hard sometimes. She would laugh at me and make fun of me, and made me cry. There were times when I thought she hated me. We are very close friends now, I am 23 and she is 24. When your a teen it's tough, but it get's better trust me.

Answer 5

my sister is kinda like that, I have the same situtation as you kinda but I'm a year younger than you, but my sister and I are equals (or view ourselves as at least), neither is really prettier (we look kinda the same, not reallly) and neither has that much better of grades. Oh and my sister and I don't make fun of each other, but if we do it's just in a joking matter. We used to argue and things, but we have matured. Just ask her to stop it, or tell your parent(s), and have a family talk about it.

Answer 6

Just let it go, sweetie.
Sisters are like this, and later in life, you will become best friends.
Just think about it this way, you don't get on with teenage girl you have ever met, like at school for instance, so why should you get on with this girl just because she is your sister?
There is no real reason as to why you should try and get back atr her, it's only going to increase the tension in your home and it's not going to be nice to live in that environment...and your poor mom! How is she going to deal with two teenagers who are at each others throats the whole time? Don't stoop to your sister's level.
Underneath all her bravado, she is probably very insecure and the only way she can think of to make her feel better is to put you down a lot. Don't let her get to you.
I never got on with my sister either, it took for to move to the USA before we started getting along!

Answer 7

Listen to me. I am an only child and sometimes I would give my right arm for a sibiling. So what if she is a little annoying, you will always have someone there for you in serious situatuins. So no matter how much you feel like you hate her now, think of what it would be like without her.

Answer 8

KILL HER WITH KINDNESS, and if that doesn't work just reak havoc on her like replace her shampoo with honey. It may be immature but your young and you should live it up while it lasts. Yes I'm so evil. YOUR SISTER IS DOOOOMED. I'm 15 too and she is lucky she isn't my sister because I'd beat her to the floor, not seriously though. OOOOh try this,"Mom i saw (your sisters name) smoking when you were gone she also was talking on the phone and said something about this new guy she was Messing around with, what did she mean?" She will get whats coming to her. Usually I don't act like this but I do like to have fun.

Answer 9

This makes it really hard for you to be happy in your family. I think you should get your parents together with you and your sister and try to talk about it. If it isn't possible to do that for some reason maybe an adult could help you talk to them This is abuse and needs to be addressed.

Answer 10

sometimes the can bre a drag but soon enough shes gunna start defending you in the next yr or so shes gunna have ur back and ur gunna have hers u'll develop a bond, try to tell her that she hurts u when she does that stuff , good luck.