Is masturbating okay?

Question

I'm a 14 year old girl and sometimes I think I sort of masturbate. I'm not sure if it's really masturbating could you please tell me what it really is. And also do you think it is okay to do this?

Answer 1

Totally okay . . . whatever you're doing to get yourself off can be termed masturbation.

Answer 2

To masturbate, fantasizing, or getting into an aroused state mentally is important.use the tips of your fingers for actual stimulation, but it's better to start with patting motions or light rubbing motions over the general area. As excitement increases began stroking above the clitoris and finally reached a climax with a rapid, jerky circular motion over the clitoral hood. Usually your legs are apart, and occasionally you also stimulate your nipples with the other hand."
"If you are in a hurry (pressed for time), use the vibrator on the base of the clitoris, with your legs open. But usually you use your fingers rubbing around the base of your clitoris, and when you are near orgasm, move your fingers to a circular motion on top of your clitoris. Your legs are always apart, and you alternate hands because one gets tired. Your other hand will caress your breasts or just rest. And you move your body a lot when you have the orgasm



try that

Answer 3

Masturbating is totally normal, your body is going through hormonal changes and one of those is the erg to be sexual. The thing that I would like to commend you on is that your exploring your own body, and with all types of STDs and risks of pregnancy's due to misinformed information that teens get your at a higher risk. It is so much safer for you to be masturbating rather then engaging in sex! And a little advice-It's way better and I want to emphasize on WAY BETTER doing it yourself then with some boy at that age.

Answer 4

well at that age youre body is developing and you will have feelings of wanting to have sex. at that age your body is able to have orgasms and when you do then youll know if youre masturbating. Now I'm speaking from experience and I started masturbating from the time I was 12 and I did not lose my virginity until I was 19 years old. I feel it is a good way to explore your body and hold off on sex if youre in the right state of mind, and i believe that theres no fault in that.

Answer 5

It's totally normal and healthy. It is your body so experimenting with it by touching yourself only makes sense. It helps you know what you like, and what you want.

And if you are touching yourself in a sexually pleasing way, that counts as masturbation. Even if you don't get off.

I hope that helps!

Answer 6

you've stated that your courting such as your spouse is reliable, so i believe that you both have a healthful, pleasant sexual courting. if so, that's no longer purely "ok" to masturbate, in case you so favor, yet relax guaranteed that masturbation between married human beings is amazingly customary.

Answer 7

Yes, it's normal. When I was about your age I discovered Sue Johansen, a sex doctor from Canada. She has a website and books, and she's considered the best. She'll teach you everything and then some. Check her out.

Answer 8

Yes it is normal, just do it in private. Masturbation is when you pleasure yourself sexually, it can be with your finger, or some object.

Answer 9

yes its normal and natural and if you think ur sort of masturbating well you probably are

Answer 10

I am 14 and I play with my pussy all the time it feels good and nothing is wrong with it.Play with your pussy girl it's a part of life.