OK. this is going to sound really small and petty but its really bothering me. I have a facebook profile (its just another myspace site) and I think I want to shut it down. I was sort of pressured to go on it and also I wanted to but the whole thing is driving me insane and making me depressed. I'm the kind of person, who I like everybody and everybody has to like me. So if I have a friend on there I feel like I have to be friends with their friends, and their boyfriends and girlfriends or they'll think I'm a ahole, but then again I don't always know these friends of friends and I worry that I'll get rejected, and I fear that so much. It always bothers me and makes me depressed. Especially sicne one person accepted my friend request one night and then removed me a few hours later and that really bothered me. I've been depressed ever since, paranoid that everybody just hates me. I also worry that people think I'm arrogant because I added so many people in so little time, people i don't think they knew that I knew that well. And I added all of them. I don't want them to think I'm arrogant. especially since I'm not really popular, sort of liked I'd say, but not really popular, and I'm friends with some of the people the more popular kids are friends with, like seniors that graduated last year. I've just been paranoid about that, and I'm depressed, and I don't really think taking it down would make me feel any better but I just think then I'd be out of this whole thing. I also don't know if there is any "social" damage that getting rid of it would reverse it, not change it, or even make it worse. But I mean everybody has one now, and people added me as a friend just yesterday and invited me to be in an internet group and I don't want to be rude and take it down the day after. And a few people seemed happy that i got it just a few days ago. And I also don't want to lose touch with the people that graduated last year and want them to know that I like them. Sometimes I think people don't realize I like them because I just don't talk much but i like everybody. SO what do you think I should do? The main question is should I get rid of it.?
2006-11-29 10:20:53 · 9 answers · asked by leena 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
for your sanity, delete it.
2006-11-29 10:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by jessiebrenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that was long and I read through it all!!! NO don't get off, stay on it..... I got onto facebook when I was in college and I loved it.... now about the whole requesting people, if you don't know them, like if you wouldn't have a conversation with them if you saw them out on the town, DON'T add them. Only add real firends and who cares if people got jealous that you have a lot of friend already and you haven't been on it long.... that has nothing to do with you. Just stay on it, make your profile cute and when people invite you to join group do it, or you could even create your own group and invtie friends and strangers to be on it, that is a sure way to gain nice new friends. GL
2006-11-29 10:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't be friends with everyone or you would end up being friends with everyone in the world! Yes, you can be nice to everyone you meet, but that doesn't mean that you have to be friends with everyone! You can just be nice to them, but you need to find your real friends. They will always stick by your side. Everyone you know will not like you. Just, some people you click with, and some you don't. You need to be who you really are, don't worry about what other people think.
Now about your MySpace, that's your desion. If you like it, then keep it. If you don't like it, get rid of it. I don't know how to end it, so you will have to ask someone else. Good Luck.
2006-11-29 10:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by montypython 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down silly. It's just a website =P Keep it! Not everyone is going to like everyone "obviously" You need to stop caring so much about what other people think of you. If it keeps on bothering you then delete it...but wait a little while, I think you would regret it.
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2006-11-29 10:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by †ᴰᴲᵛᴵᴸ† 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
facebook and Myspace have no longer something to do with saftey. as long as you're smart and do not provide out own information to human beings on both one then they are both purely as secure. p.s. I say MYSPACE.
2016-11-29 22:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was alot to read....ok but n-e ways....if you dont feel comfortable w/ it then delete it and y are u trying to empress other ppl that dont like you....your friends shouldn't care if you have 1 or not..they should except u for who u are and if they dont u need to find new friends cuz thatz not right so et rid of it cuz from what i read u dont want it and it caused u to be upset from the whole thing of that person deleted you and everything. find other ways to contact them....get a myspace or call them....get theyre e-mail address. remember do what u want not what ppl want u to do dont let other ppl control your life your not controlling theyres. LOTZ OF LUCK........bye hope thiz helps
2006-12-02 17:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get in touch with the people you care about in other ways (phone, messenger). Then delete it and don't look back.
2006-11-29 10:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by Nick T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Delete and ignore.
2006-11-29 10:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks what myspace has done to kids.....
Delete It. NOW... you havent deleted it yet?
2006-11-29 10:31:09 · answer #9 · answered by Strabos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋