He is 41 and I am 23, age really not a issue. I feel that he might be stringing me alone(I think he is seeing someone else). I have been honest, and faithful to this man, I care about him so much. He is the only man I have dated in my state were i live. Sometimes I feel like a fool. I just don't know what to do. I don't know should I stay or go.
2006-11-29 10:13:36 · 7 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First you need to get answers. Information will help you reclaim your power. You have suspicions, and you are probably right. It is good to listen to that inner voice. He owes you explanations; but may be a habitual liar. He needs to give you proof that he is serious about your relationship together. Do some investigation on your own. You have been with him for over a year. Do you know any of his friends or family where you can get information. If after all this time, you do not know any of his family or friends; I would say that's a definite clue that he's stringing you along. Protect yourself and your feelings. Empower yourself with needed information on this guy.
2006-11-29 10:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by danaluana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he might be stringing you along, especially if you suspect that he is seeing someone else. I would have a very frank and serious discussion with him and if he can't give you any straight answers or make the kind of committment that you feel that he should be making to you, then I would go.
2006-11-29 18:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a long talk with him and get all your questions answered before you make a move. But if you honestly think he isn't the one for you then you might just move on...
2006-11-29 18:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases, gut instinct is correct. If you think he is seeing someone, he probably is. Talk it out with him, look for clues. If it's true, get out of the relationship quickly, before it causes you more heartache. Good luck.
2006-11-29 18:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by bellegurl17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that he has someone else, then maybe he is. if he is acting different or he makes himself distanced from u then there could be another girl in the picture!!!!
2006-11-29 18:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i care about him,,,,,,,,,,,,,you are in love with him, get out of state they,re may be more than one guy there.
2006-11-29 18:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow him! check his voicemail, email, etc. usually a womans 6th sense is correct!
2006-11-29 18:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋