i cant seem to stop wondering if others are talking about me, it hurts sometimes because i try to be a nice person to everyone even those i dont like b/c other people feeling matter to me.
2006-11-29 09:29:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
don't worry so much about every one else ,think a bit more about your self . if you are happy with who you are then what dose it matter what anyone else thinks
2006-11-29 09:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by beefcowsboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me when I was younger. I know it sucks but you have to stop caring about what people think about you so much . You also have to realize that everyone is not going to like you, no matter how sweet you are. I'm not trying to be harsh but it is reality. Some people are just mean. If those same people see you letting their words get to you, they feed off of that...it makes them talk about you even more. You have to have confidence in yourself and put up this "I don't give a damn"..."I love who i am" kind of attitude. Some people take advantage of people who are kind but you have to stand your ground when you are being generous or nice people. Don't let them get to you...keep your head up high. You are a beautiful person! :-)
2006-11-29 17:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by PreciousRuby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will quit caring about what people are saying about you when you are secure within yourself. Haven't you heard " Sticks and stones can break my bones, but words can never hurt me"? You may think people are talking about you, but they have their own agendas & could care less about you ,really. If you lived in Los Angeles you would see how "invisiable" you really are, get a life & keep chugging along. No one is talking about you & they don't really care if you jump off a cliff like a lemming- Miss Vanity we are just trying to survive - don't be so paranoid, you are not the only one living in this universe. Good luck.
2006-11-29 17:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by jyone scotani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have low self-esteem. No seriously, you look at yourself in a negative view which in the process you bring out in other people that you think are saying bad things. Most of the time they are not. You need to take a couple of deep breaths & hang out with the friends you have & say screw em to the rest! At the end of the day, who's going to have your back? People will always chatter, but it's how you react that you show your strength.
2006-11-29 17:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by jmintecu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same exact problem, until I realized that they are no better than I am,and why should I care about them and their feelings, they obviously don't care about mine.
The next time you wonder about other people, just remember this-this is my life and if you don't like it, then I do not need you for a friend.
Then move on and get more and better friends.
2006-11-29 17:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by ellis4655@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your own life. If you truly live for yourself and those that do love you it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks. Be a nice person because you are, not because you want others to like you.
2006-11-29 18:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by algaritabec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say stuff back in their face....
2006-11-29 17:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by Da Mick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it!
2006-11-29 17:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋