I want to be able to accpet myself as I am. Sometimes I feel ashamed about being shy and not a skinny person. How can I accept myself and celebrate my life (just as it is)?
2006-11-29 09:24:02 · 7 answers · asked by tillcow_64 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
As long as you are not bothering other people and are responsible with your job and finances, be and do whatever you want.
2006-11-29 09:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by TarKettle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must recognize your strengths and understand that you are unique in some way. you are no different than any other human being..you are capable of many things...and you can change many things in this world including things about yourself...if your overweight work hard to get into shape...if you are shy try getting involved in work or school more...i know it is all easier said then done. I think a good way to help you accept yourself is to pick one thing you like about yourself and run with it see how far it takes you..and when that is done look at what you dont like about yourself so much and start to work on it..make your weakness your strength. remember there is only one you...you dont even have to try to special.
2006-11-29 17:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by super steve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u have to have enough confidence always think that's the way i am and if some one likes me that person has to like me with the wam i am ...secondly in this big world no body is perfect don't go ahead and look at Stars with 20 kiloz make up of course they have to be pretty ...if ur not skinny so what? am skinny and it seems guys hate skinny gurls trust me i broke up with ma ex Boy just becos he used to love fat gurls i mean to say he didn't like my body ,tasts are diffrent , for alots ov ppl Brad Pitt is so handsome but for me hes the ugliest guy i have ever seen .and it is not all about body n face try to dress up as much as u can try to make up ur face n hair try to make ur self pretty then take a look at your self in the mirror then u will come to know how pretty u are . don't say that ever again that i feel ashamed becos am not a skinny person y u should think about ur self the way? c'mon respect yourself it is alway u who can build ur self esteem ...Merilyn Monroe was a pretty woman Now where is she? some where in the cof'n ...
2006-11-29 17:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whaddaya mean, "how"? Just accept the fact that you are you, and won't be anything but you. This doesn't mean resigning yourself to your station in life...that can be changed. But being you is all you'll ever be.
2006-11-29 17:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this might be contraversial, but I think if your weight/fat is making you so uncomfortable you should really put the effort into losing it, somethings this alone can help fix peoples self-confidence.
2006-11-29 17:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Nick T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bob Grizwald. The guys a genius. Google him.
(he is a guy who sells tapes that hypnotize you to loose wieght. It is crazy)
2006-11-29 17:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that God is All-That-Is. That includes you. God is perfect. So are you...
2006-11-29 17:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋