My graduation isset for the 14th of this month,however i have not decided whether to go or not. Why? My 3 other friends do not qualify for gradition, not because they didn't care, instead it is because of the Instructors poor quality job.
Anyway, am i being selfish if i choose to attend the graduation although they won't be graduating?
2006-11-29 08:49:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think u will be selfish at all, you can't live your life by not doing things your friends don't get to. Everyone has their own experiences, and you've got the oppurtunity to celebrate yours! I mean, isn't this what you've been working for?
2006-11-29 08:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by peaceloveliberals 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta ask yourself why you'd stop now when you're this close.
It's not fun or fair when we can't take our friends with us, but even if the instructors were poor, it could have easily been you not graduating and them able to. Leaving your school days behind and becoming a fully-functional adult was (or should have been) your reason for college. If anything, in the future if things get tough for them, you will have the bases covered to help them up later. In the end, finishing may be as much for them in the future as it is for you.
If they try to trip you up for passing before them, they're not your friends... And sadly, you could blame their not passing on anything but it still does not help the fact they didn't pass.
Now if their whole classes were failed, start a protest... ^^*
Don't feel guilty for achieving. Enjoy your accomplishments and get on with what is important to you.
2006-11-29 09:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by SweetSoulX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. If they do not get to graduate it is because of the instructor not you.
Unless you feel a need to help them protest I think you should go for it.
2006-11-29 08:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to that graduation.. so what if ur friends don't graduate... if u have earned it u should go 4 it!!
and its not being selfish 4 wanting to graduate.... ur friends should understand it!!=-)
2006-11-29 08:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by brittney f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's up to you overall, despite what everyone tells you, you'll still be the one making the decision. So why bother what other people want you to do? Think of what you want here, sure their opinions are nice, and try to take them into consideration for your decision, but either way if you want to, go. If you don't, then don't.
2006-11-29 08:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Pepsi T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO... I think you should go. You shouldnt alter your own personal life experiences because of your friends. You should go on to graduation and enjoy it!
2006-11-29 08:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should attend graduation.
2006-11-29 08:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go! You earned it, and no you are not being selfish. It's not your fault they're not graduating!
2006-11-29 09:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah woah woah
are you going on to higher education even though they are not going to be?
are you going to get a job you need a diploma for?
are you never going to rise above there standards?
go to graduation!! its YOUR life.
2006-11-29 08:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by itsALICE! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the graduation. you earned it. so enjoy the day!
2006-11-29 08:52:32 · answer #10 · answered by Bruce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋