i cant let go of my internet friendship with this internet girl from canada ive known her for over a year shes 19, but weve just drifted apart, shes hardly online anymore, and im wondering where she is? im so lonely i feel like crying, its not like i have any materialistic possessions to keep me entertained either except my computer
2006-11-29 08:47:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
first of all,my answers will all be honest,a lil'frank but definitely NO BS,ok?
Why?because,you are a normal human being.There's totally nothing wrong with you.Hey,sometimes,i ALSO feel i'm closer to my on-line friends than my off-line ones.You missed her coz maybe you treated her like your regular off-line friends,shared certain stuff,maybe even shared a secret or a tear or 2.You missed her!You can try sending her e-mails and tell her at least let you know she's ok,or if she finally got swept off her feet or won the lottery or abducted by aliens(if "they" let'er go 0n-line,ha-ha).
But if she still doesn't reply,don't always jump to conclusions.If you feel she was close to u as u are to her,something might hav happened that's BEYOND her control(again-"aliens"---sorry,just trying to cheer you up!).Like if u were in her place,would u let "you" worry?
I know this is easier said than done,but try to find other things you can focus your energy on and gradually detach yourself from on-line relationships.It's hard-I'VE BEEN THERE-don't let it end up w/your family doctor suggesting to yer parents to take away your computer.
My advice is one you can apply to EVERYTHING in your life:BALANCE!It's ok to have on-line friends but try to have at least 1 or 2 OFFLINE ones as well-ones you can actaully spend time with and actually see and be actualy there in person for each other..With my experience before,it was more intense on-line coz it felt like it was "easier" pourin' out my soul on-line than in real life.
Plus-remember this:No such thing as coincidences:everything happens for a reason,a purpose(eventhough the "WHY" always comes later on).
Everything that happens,everyone we meet-are all just pieces of that giant jigsaw puzzle we call LIFE.
I hope this helps a bit.
2006-11-29 09:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by NUorlns 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to get out and find some new friends. When she stopped communicating with you it really should have told you something. She has moved on and maybe that is what you need to do. It's a big world out there and there are really a lot of nice people. Get to know some of them, then maybe you won't be lonely. Material things can't make you happy and neither can another person, it comes from within, you choose to be happy in whatever circumstance you find yourself in.
2006-11-29 11:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by PegSl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, what you have done is fallen in love with your computer. Have you ever met this girl face to face???? If not, how do you know she is not a 48 yr old obese man playing with your head. Get out from under your computer and go meet a real girl. I'm sure you have loads to offer.
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2016-10-13 09:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way about an internet girl ... I think few both need to get out more.
2006-11-29 09:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, that must be hard. Sorry to hear that. Maybe you should go out or something and meet some new people. Don't let it bug you. And if you feel like crying.. CRY! That can be helpful.
2006-11-29 08:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had that happen to me before but life does go on. But try find some friends you can interact face to face. It's good to be out and about because it's not good to stay cooped up inside your home. Good luck to you:)
2006-11-29 08:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by rachee_gal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you don't have the choice in this situation. Make friends with someone local and start up a new email correspondence with her!
2006-11-29 08:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go somewhere where real people live and get to know people face to face. This is the way we were meant to be
2006-11-29 09:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by epaphras_faith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have friendships with real people that you can touch and see. But, hey, that's just me.
2006-11-29 08:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋