For example why will I not plan a holiday for next year, is it because I do not have to or is because I am waiting and wanting to meet someone for to go along with their plans or plan with them. Also why do I eventually always challange control freaks, am I one? Why do I tolerate bull **** for so long and then brutely blow it out of the water and take no prisoners. What your analysis of this?
2006-11-29 08:33:38 · 3 answers · asked by Gem of Wisdom 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well, I'm not sure what you mean by "Brutely blow it out of the water and take no prisoners", but everything else you say is fine.
I think it's most natural to "go with the flow" of what makes you happy at the time. What makes you happy right now may not make you happy a year from now, so why bother planning that far ahead (unless you *know* you're going to want to do whatever it is).
As far as controlling people - annoying, huh? I think the one sure way to drive yourself nuts in this life is to try to control other people - because you CAN'T. And nobody can control you unless you let them. And still it's your choice to go along with them, so they're not really controlling you, you're still deciding to go along, right?
Always do what feels right in your gut. Always trust your own instincts, not someone else's ideas about what's right for you.
Peace.
2006-11-29 08:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by locolady98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are planners, the rest of us prefer adventure!
2006-11-29 08:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, next year is too far off.
2006-11-29 08:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋