what do I do if my father took my Door off my hindges? he took away my privacy! what if i need to get dressed or something???
PLEASE I NEED ADVICE TO OVERCOME IT!
2006-11-29 08:21:49 · 35 answers · asked by Jenn-Kerr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my dad took my hindges off my door!! i didnt clean my room and now its clean and he just took my door off! HELP ME!!
2006-11-29 08:25:30 · update #1
O.K. I know this is going to sound momish but you had to do something that made him not trust you. Talk to him and see if you can compromise to get his trust back and after a couple of weeks he'll put your door back. Until then deal with it as best you can and most importantly make it look like you completley understand why he did it and accept punishment graciously. Doing this will get hios respect back.
2006-11-29 08:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The same thing happened to my stepson in our home. He was told on several occasions certain things/rules of the house. He did not follow these rules and was punished by having his bedroom door removed. He handled it by dressing in the bathroom and he also sat down and spoke with his dad and asked exactly what it was that finally got his door removed and his dad explained it to him. After a long discussion, he finally understood a little bit more about his dad and the importance of following the rules of the house. His dad finally put the door back on his room, earlier than he stated he would, and things have been much better. Talk to your dad, calmly, and work it out. I'm sure there is a good resolution if you discuss things with him in an adult manner. Good luck!
2006-11-29 09:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by dtmrrd04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has taken your door down I can only guess that you have done something to warrant his action. You did not describe why he did this, therefore I can only imagine that you are doing something with this "privacy" that you should not be doing. If you want the door back you must first correct the issue at hand. Until then, it looks like you will be changing in the bathroom. I advise you to talk with your father and rectify the issue that caused this.
2006-11-29 08:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest getting dressed in a bathroom as I am sure your parents would be upset if you were to put your own makeshift 'door' up after they removed it. This happened to my daughter's best friend next door. Her overprotective mother or go-with-the-flow father would suspend her door 'priveleges' whenever they felt she was being obstinate or insubordinate. Funny, too, because she was a very good girl who got good grades, but they kept moving her from public school to private school trying to keep boys and friends of friends that tried did drugs away from her. All they achieved bi doing so was lower grades and a more mischievious resentful daughter. Sad. Taking away one's door and privacy is far too extreme disciplinary measures for me... I just use grounding and/or take away the iPod... works every time. LOL
2006-11-29 08:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by azcuriousm4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom did the same thing to me because she found a boy in my room one night. but the only men living in the house was my brother who was never home anyways but one time when he was home i was getting dressed so i stood by my door way and acted like i was putting on lotion or something and i discusted the shiit out of him (not to mention im fat) and it was so funny my mom couldnt even get mad at me and you should have seen my brother face:( anyways she put my door back on not long after that. what you need to do is talk to you dad and explain to him you have growing body parts and you dont feel comfortable not having a door i hope this helps you out
2006-11-29 11:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by brun!pinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously did it for a reason. You must have been naughty. Wear a bathrobe, and change in the bathroom. It's that easy. And, since you live under his roof, and he pays the bills, you aren't really entitled to a door anyway....you don't pay rent, do you? It's his house, and his call. Deal with it and next time, don't get in trouble.
2006-11-29 08:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there is this any thing to do with the state of youre bedroom ???? dads have been knowen of doing this if this is so then tidy the b/room ......if not start getting changed in the bathroom and make sure that you take even longer that you usually take and always make sure that you beat him to the bathroom first thing this will encourage him to replace the door ......yeah i know crafty ......i could write a book on this subject .....take care xx
2006-11-29 08:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
looks like you're going to be getting dressed in a different room from now on! Obviously you did something that made your parents feel like they can't trust you. Sooner or later they will regain your trust and you will get your door back. Be patient! and be good!
2006-11-29 08:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by britt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow...you must have made a big boo boo.
Is there still a door on the bathroom???
Or ask to put up a sheet in your doorway, so they can still hear what you are up to and smell it, but can't see it...that seems like a fair compromise to me.
2006-11-29 08:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by Dolphin lover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well coming from a "mom" you must have done something to deserve it. You'll have to earn your dad's trust back - first step TRY not to complain too much, apologize for whatever you did & hopefully it won't be this way for too long...
As far as getting dressed, guess you'll have to use the bathroom.
Good luck..
2006-11-29 08:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋