I Rejected him cause i was 2 scared..this is what he wrote to me.pls help im not sure how to respond to this?

Question

Umm...I like your fire !!
I do not like it when you are rude and YOU know when you are being rude. You have high barriers around you, which you refuse to lower for fear of getting hurt. You dont trust people very much. All of this is fine....people have different personalities some open, some closed. You tend to lean to the side of closed. Its hard to read what is going on in your mind. That is an obstacle . This part explains your attitude. You are presentable and sociable when you choose to be....so your personality is usually nice. Yes you are turn-on is a lot more to do with the mind than it is do with the body. You dont sleep with some one just because they have good body or great legs. The mind needs to be stimulated for the body to follow. Even then its speculative. Our relationship has a lot of spark....and I suppose all that energy will be positive in a physical sense of union. But then I could be wrong, maybe we will fail to excite each physically. But mentally i like

Answer 1

This is good he is telling you he likes you for who you are he just wished that you would let the barriers around your heart down I get the same thing as well so next time open up to him tell him why you have these barriers we all have been hurt before but sometimes its good to let love in this guy loves you so good luck and if he has a brother send one over for us will ya LOL

Answer 2

I would be more careful with this.

Not out of fear. As A guy I know what guys think. They typically have one thing on their mind. He brings up sex too often. I think he is manipulating you. If he was really saying he liked you then he would have simply stated that and left out all the stuff about the physical union and so on.

I would be very cautious. Remember though, I don't know you or him or any of the circumstances. Neither does anyone else here. Your best bet is to take this up with someone you trust who is older and wiser and do NOT seek an answer on the internet.

Answer 3

He's basically saying (in a very akward and attemptingly knowledgable manner) that he likes you and that he "understands" that you rejected him because you were scared. He's saying he likes the way you look, he likes your personality, and that he likes your mind/intellect best of all. I'd try by telling him that it'd be easier to understand him if he weren't trying to write like he's smarter than he is. And it's not like you need a psychological breakdown of yourself.