i am 14 years old. my dad is very mean and abusive to me. i am so unhappy and depressed. i feel so rejected. i have low self esteem. i started to cut myself to feel better and now i am addicted to that. my friends won't talk to me because they think i'm weird. i think of suicide everyday. what should i do? PLEASE HELP!
2006-11-29 08:07:58 · 11 answers · asked by laura 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-11-29 08:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG , dont do that , please dont do that , regardless of what you feel like there are other things you can do maye that will help you rather than cut yourself...Many people do or have thought about suicide at some point in their lives. your 14 , before you know it you will be 18 and be able to run your life the way you want and become whatever you would like. I had a tough time at home when I was that age but soon I was all grown up and nobody could say a word :) .... look at the bright future ahead of you , not the problems that make you feel that way now........ Hope this helps. and if you dont stop cutting you will always have somthing to remind you about being depressed..... which isnt good.
2006-11-29 16:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a counselor at school and try to sort out some of your problems and feelings. It will make you feel better to open up about it all to someone who isn't in the situation.
Also whenever your father says or does anything to you that is hurtful TELL HIM. And please stop cutting yourself. Causing pain on the outside doesn't cancel out the pain within.
2006-11-29 16:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by Niko 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be sad or angry. That will hurt you more. That will give you more bitterness and soreness. If I were you, I will try to find the good reason why God has put me in the situation. It might not be good now but I would believe it will turn out to be good at the end of God's plan.
And whenever I feel lonely and down, I remember that God made each one of us specially. He knows you and knows your name. And He knows your heart.
Because He knows you so well and love you, maybe He is giving you the suffering to refine you. I will pray for you.
2006-11-29 16:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jonah in the fish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where's your Mom? Try to talk to a teacher that you feel comfortable with, or your school nurse, even your school counselor...you're not weird, you are wanted and what's happening to you is not your fault...please understand that whatever it is that your Dad is going through you could NOT have caused...he's an adult and should act like one...please talk to someone
2006-11-29 16:13:09 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey its ok you dont kneed to worry. a easy and simple thing is what you have to do. talk to an adult u trust. at school a really good neighbor someone u can trust. solve out the problem. wen it comes 2 a time where ur dad starts being mean ignore him or talk to him nicely and explan it why he shouldn't be doing that. if nothing else happens and its all the same,please IM me on yahoo messenger or email at shreysoccer@aim.com. and i will surely help you solve your problem...good luck and all the best
2006-11-29 16:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by Casey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is my best answer... If you have a counselor at your school go to him/her. Also you can call the suicide hot line if it gets to that point which i really hope it doesn't .if there is a teacher at your school you can talk to them and they can usually help you. but the only way you will ever feel better is if you talk to someone... an adult
hope you feel better!
Phoebe <33333
2006-11-29 16:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by Phoebe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly.... GET HELP. You don't need to end it. There are people in this world who will LOVE you. Be strong. You need to tell an adult ,a guidance counselor, a teacher or a friends parent. Stop cutting yourself. I understand that you are going through trouble, but it does seem weird. PLEASE GET HELP. I PRAY THAT YOU DO
2006-11-29 16:13:00 · answer #8 · answered by goldenfour7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some help from either a counselor, or pastor, or trusted adult friend. or call the nine line- 1.800.999.9999.
they help with teens problems, and its free.
2006-11-29 16:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by buff23_7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL A SCHOOL GUIDANCE COUNSELOR OR THE SCHOOL NURSE. GET HELP! YOU ARE A SPECIAL PERSON AND DESERVE A BETTER LIFE.
2006-11-29 16:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋