2006-11-29 07:27:30 · 23 answers · asked by vampira5556 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't worry about them. Their not going to be your friends after you finish school anyway. Your going to meet alot of people in your lifetime... Some will accept it. Some won't. That's not your problem. You are who you are. Don't let anyone tell you different.
Contact PFLAG in your area & they'll hook you up with a LGBT youth program where you can meet other youth just like yourself.
Don't worry... Your not alone. This is just the begining. There's a lot of people who suffer through this just like yourself. http://www.pflag.org/Find_a_Chapter.find_chapters.0.html
2006-11-29 07:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ida 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Here is something to do every time you run into one, or more of those girls that think you are grouse, because you are bisexual.
Do not, or ever defend your sexuality.They don't defend their heterosexuality. You are, who you are, and never back down.
Here is what you do. Make notes. Start with one girl, the one you find the hotest, look into her eyes very seductively and down her body, especially if she is alone don't say anything. If two or more girls hang and they seem to have an issue your sexuality pick the one you like, and do the something, make contact.....and I know you know what I mean.
What does all this solve, well my dear sooner or later the one that you show interest in will soon become very curious, even if just to say hi, or look at you with interest behind her friends back. before long she is telling her friends to leave to alone you are not hurting anyone. Stuff like that catches on. Trust me when I say some of those very girls are lesbians, bisexual,swingers and all sorts of different sexual orientation you just don't know which....you just happened to be 'out'
HANG TOUGH GIRLFRIEND....
2006-11-29 16:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by J. M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too sure on what youre asking here but... people are going to have opinions about you no matter how you live your life. All i can say is as long as you are true to yourself you'll do just fine. Please dont let what other people say, do, or think effect who you are. I know that in high school that can be extremely hard to remember but just.. Be You! thats the best you can do. You'll find your true friends and forget all about those other girls. Good luck hun!
2006-11-29 15:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by lostboi3008 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about them, they don't matter because you don't need to talk people that with closed minds like that. don't worry even if people in your school aren't accepting its probably cause they are very immature still, i remember high school every one was so b****** to each other and almost every girl was a drama queen. but don't worry ignore them and try talking to people that aren't so judgmental. they'll probably be better friends anyways. but its very cool that you are brave enough to be open about ur sexuality. im sure if you keep staying true to yourself like that you will find real happiness.
and no you don't need any kind of help at all spiritual or otherwise, you are perfectly fine, better than most actually. im sure God is very happy with you.
2006-11-29 15:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not sure what your question is, but I can sympathize. I'm a bi female and I figured myself out at 14 when I was in 9th grade. It could be pretty tough. If they bother you just keep your head down (literally when you're in a locker room) and let it roll off your back. They's just insecure b!tches who think they're the hottest things to walk the Earth, so you must want them.
2006-11-29 15:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by tabithap 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
thats funny how that works cause after highschool you usually arent forced to spend time w/hundreds of people you dont choose to and you'll be around people most of the time that only favor your choices that the glory of graduation, also any adults I know for whatever reason dont really care for gay men, but men and women usually find gay women pretty kinky so dont worry about it just be you Good LUCK KIMBUR also maybe watch what you display to everyone I mean you should act like any respectful couple in public not saying your doing anything wrong just incase
2006-11-29 15:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just remind them that love is a many splendored thing and there's nothing in the way you love that obliges them to be bisexual, too, so it's really none of their business.
2006-11-29 16:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, you are going to have to face the fact that there is always going to be someone or some people who dislike you or disagree with you. It use to drive me crazy when I was in school, I tried to make everyone like me. I finally realized in my late twenties it was hopeless, I told the people who didn't like me or disagreed with me to go scr*w themselves, suddenly I felt so much better. So be yourself and have fun, life is to short to worry about what people think. I think you special.
2006-11-29 16:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a personal thing and your friends has no business to interfere unless you have exposed yourself to them. From now on just keep quite and find some friends that will accept you and let life be.
2006-11-29 15:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It just shows how sad they really are. If you're in the bible belt of america, then they are probably just spouting what they have been told to say by their preacher. Either that or they are jealous of you for having the guts to be open about it.
2006-11-29 15:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋