what do you think when you see fit man and a fat woman together?

Answer 1

Doesnt bother me I guess only narrow minded people are the only ones who give second thoughts to something like this because in the first place to each his own you love who you love so I dont think about things like this,such as race and size it makes no difference to me people do who and what they want simple as that.

Answer 2

The first thing I think is why there are so many stupid and shallow people in this world. Why is what you see on the outside so important to people? If that is how you judge people and your friends, then you have an extremely selfish and shallow group of friends, who care nothing about anything, except the way they look. Has it ever crossed your mind that the "overweight" person may have a medical problem that is so serious that she could die? Has it ever crossed your mind that the "fit" man may have a medical problem that is so serious that he could die, too? Why does everyone automatically think that a "fit" person is so much healthier than an overweight person? It makes me sick to my stomach to think that there are so many shallow people out there that they have nothing else to do with their time but criticize what a person looks like. Maybe those people are just jealous because the "fit" man finds something much more attractive on the inside of his partner. "Overweight" people are just people, too. They have feelings just like you. Actually, they are probably a much better person than you are - inside and out!

Answer 3

Well the guy I am dateing..............long distance..........is as skinny as a rail and I am overweight. I feel like a damn big old blob when we're together. It doesn't make me feel to good, but he keeps on saying he thinks I'm beautiful.
So, maybe I'll lose some weight. :-)

But I think nothing about it when I see it in others. People are people and each has their own ways of what their attracted to. Alot has to do with compatability and personality don't you think???

Answer 4

My thought process would probably be that she started out thin and fit but due to stress which led to overeating she became fat. Or she could have had a child and is having trouble putting off the weight.

Answer 5

I think nothing of it. Love is a complicated emotion and if its real does not rely on looks to maintain it. They have found something in eachother that is deeper than the surface. Maybe (and this may throw you) he thinks she is absolutely beautiful and perfect the way she is. When you look at other couples and start to judge, remember that your taste is not theirs and leave it at that.

Answer 6

if they are both FAT....that they are "overeaters"?
If one is FIT and one is not...then 1 of them is an overeater.

I actually know a couple like that. He doesn't like that's she so fat & she keeps promising to lose weight, but she lies because she's always stuffing her face with carbs & fattening things. She was brought up that way, so he should have known.

Answer 7

Nothing...who cares?

What gets me wondering is a FAT dude and a HOT chick...

Answer 8

I think that they love each other and that's all that matters. It's nice that they see the good inside each other, rather than their outside appearance.

Answer 9

That looks are NEVER anything or everything and that they have found something in each other deeper than superficial people like you could, because you are worried about it.

Answer 10

That he takes care of himself more than the woman.