Wow, don't worry, I'm not Emo or too depressed, but I feel that I've been forgotten lately.. I talk to my family a lot, but it seems that they talk to my brothers and sisters and my other family relatives a lot more, I'm social most of the time, but they just say "Heh, hmm.. yea. Cool.. yea"
Also I know this girl Amanda at my College, well 3 months ago she dropped out because she was tired of school and looking for a job, but she said to me "Email me and we can keep in touch, I'll be there to talk to you." I was cool with that, but I emailed her a lot, and to see if we could hang out, but she didn't respond back to me in a long time... maybe she has a boyfriend, and even if she did I wouldn't be jealous one bit, we'll just be friends.
Went to my cousin John's party, and there were a lot of people there, and I was having a good time, and I was very social, not too talkative, but they ignore me, even my cousin John.
It feels like my friends and family have forgotten me.
2006-11-29 07:12:21 · 9 answers · asked by Randy S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I felt that way after Iraq. Everyone had a new life when i got back, mine was on hold the whole time i was there. It gets better with time, and i got a cat to play with too!
2006-11-29 07:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you see yourself, others will see you also.
And there's a lot to be said for body language.
Your hanging out with family and old friends,
your chatting em up, but your not really sharing
what's really bothering you. They read it.
They back away, cause you don't really want to
open up about it. It's too personal...
No body likes to be around someone who is
feeling like you do....LONELY!
You need to get out there and find that special one.
It's just time...It will happen sooner than you expect.
You just have to put yourself out there in the right way.
When you talk to people for the first time,
don't be afraid to let them know..Your Looking!
Let people know your available...in the right way.
Nobody catches a fish without throwing out a line or two.
So, quit feeling thrown away and get out there..
Cast your line and catch someone.
The right one is waiting.....get moving!
You know the truth when you hear it.
2006-11-29 15:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by J B W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to get out there and make some new social connections! Find a hobby that involves getting together with other people. A fresh circle will be fun, and you'll feel included. I bet that'll help!
2006-11-29 15:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im srry you feel that way. but chances are you are just feeling a bit down and you are just thinking that is how people are being towards you.. you said you were not that talkitive and sometimes people do tend to talk more to the ones who are talking the most if that makes sence to you... like i can be kind of quiet and shy sometimes it takes alot for me to be social but i have learned that if i want people to talk to me i have to talk to them first... im not saying that any of this is whats going on with you but give it a try maybe try being a little more forward and if they dont answer or they say oh or yea say wow im srry if i bored you or srry i bothered you and usually they will get the point that they were being rude and they will spend more time listening to you from now on ...good luck
THIS IS TO JON C I JUST WANTED TO SAY THANK YOU
2006-11-29 15:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by momoftwobestkids 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just do. Take one day at a time. Get interesting in something New. I have a passion for Animals and when I feel that way I turn to them more. Most people in my life have only contacted me casue they need or want something from me.
2006-11-29 15:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont worry abot any thing because the more you worry about it the more you going to stay worrying about the situation. Just forget about them and move on . FInd someone you can talk to and enjoy talking to.
2006-11-29 15:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by getto girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgotten you huh? I won't lie and not say that I haven't felt like that but its only because I feel like I should be more important in their lives. you know.
2006-11-29 15:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by veronica E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new hobby and make new friends who share the same interest...i went through that same thing about a year ago and i joined a club and made a ton of new friends!good luck!
2006-11-29 15:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by iluvrelientk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speak and act friendly to every one you know. Love your enimes. The Devil is your true enimie.
2006-11-29 15:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋