wrong or right?
2006-11-29 07:03:14 · 23 answers · asked by odd socks 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as you are comfortable with the notion that you will most likely find something you won't like to see/know, even if it's harmless to your relationship, and then can't even share what you feel with them.
If you are looking to 'catch' him and to use what you find (infidelity etc..) to end the relationship, then go for it... otherwise it will just make you feel guilty and helpless. If you are in a happy & trusting relationship, don't do it!
2006-11-29 07:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by NYC olive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i had a partner i would not go looking through her mob phone-it IS wrong and people who do that obviously have trust issues...or are just too dam nozey anyway!! And to the people who say "well,if they have nothing to hide-where's the problem?",ever heard of privacy?! I would not do it to someone,nor would i expect them to do that to me...they would be out on their ear if they did--even though i've "nothing to hide"!!!
2006-11-29 22:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong and if you are doing it there are other issues to be worked out. Using the mobile is ok though.
2006-11-29 07:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by artimis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do most of your answers say HIS mobile, i found out my ex girlfriend was cheating when i answered her phone one day. so the question of is it wrong or right depends if you think cheating is wrong or right for both partners
2006-11-29 18:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by donkiddick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a commited relationship, then you should be able to trust them enough not to have to look through their phone. When me and my fiancee first got together(like less than a month) I would look through his, but his ex was always calling. But we talked about it and she stopped calling and now I trust him 100%. I don't think if you are in a long-term relationship you should be snooping. If they have given you a reason not to trust them, then straight out ask them about stuff. Have a good day.
2006-11-29 07:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to - he always denied it, said that he felt betrayed by my lack of trust! So I would leave my phone lying around, face down and when I picked it up it was face up. Yes, it's a big violation - and like you said very sneaky.
2016-05-23 02:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lorraine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do but only if i need a phone number that he has in his phone and not in mine....or if it ringing and i am closer or if he is outside or busy i anwser it ......there isn't anything wrong with that but if your checking the other phone because you don't have trust then it is wrong ....and it is wrong to be in a relationship with someone you do not trust.
2006-11-29 07:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by christina c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its wrong to invade privacy but if hes acting sus leaving the room and saying dont ever look at my phone then ide think he was hiding something then i guess i would
2006-11-29 07:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is wrong and It's all about trust, but if he has nothing to hide, then why not! But why would you feel the need to if you trust him!
A grey area I think!
2006-11-29 07:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by Welshchick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you can trust him/ her or not. Personally, I've no need to search through my husbands stuff. I've had one husband who cheated on me, I'd know what to look for. i sussed him out, in 4 weeks.
2006-11-29 07:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by Jeanette 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋