2006-11-29 06:57:17 · 19 answers · asked by lol 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Someone once told me that everything happens for a reason. Not everyone you meet are you suppose to be with forever. Sometimes that person is only there for a season. Did you learn something from the experience? Are you a better person? If so, then I think he served his purpose and now you can move on to someone who will appreciate the person you are now.
2006-11-29 07:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they were put in your life to make you grow in a certain area. Pain is only the feeling of weakness leaving your body, remember that. If someone's left you with nothing but tears and pain, they've actually left you with more wisdom and strength. Struggle builds character.
2006-11-29 15:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess many of us have had similar experiences. You might not understand a person's rationale for acting a certain way, but I also believe part of it is as a result of not following one's gut instincts about a person's flaws.
Looking back post breakup, one tends to see the incompatibility issues that led up to the tears and pain more clearly.
2006-11-29 15:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by cardigan06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They always leave a lesson, it just takes a while to find out what it was. You become stronger, you learn to deal with life, with pain. Eventually you can learn how to forgive, how to let go, how to move on.
2006-11-29 14:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by artimis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have asked myself that question a hundred times.They dont intentionally cause us that pain but sometimes it just happens that way.Love is a complicated thing.Some of us have gone through emotional and physical abuse.
2006-11-29 15:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly there is no set answer for this.
people will come and go and no doubt hurt you again so when you find that special someone hold onto them for dear life and beware to remember how you felt when hurt and becareful to treat them how you want to be treated
2006-11-29 16:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by areyou_looking_atme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you needed to learn a lesson - learn it, gain strength from it and move on.
Good luck
2006-11-30 11:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by intelligentbutdizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine if we knew that, there would be no more pain, no more tears........unfortunately like is not like that.
2006-11-29 15:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you need to learn a lesson about yourself.......once you learn that it won't happen again.
2006-12-02 13:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew the answer to that question.
2006-11-29 14:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by guardianangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋