My bf and i are thinking of getting married and he gave me papers to sign regarding the marriage?I do not fully understand everything that is in this contract. I am obligated to produce evidence that i can have children. ?Among other strange request including how often we have sex per week, and the allowance i get per week.If i divorce him i owe him money?Is this legal?Should i get a lawyer?
2006-11-29 06:46:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It also says i would not get any money unless i was married to him for 15 yrs or more?
2006-11-29 06:51:36 · update #1
don't sign anything ever with out a lawyer. pre nups are really getting out of hand. mandatory sex? wow, he must be loaded for you to even consider agreeing to having slave like conditions put in your marriage. if you sign it's totally legal, he owns you after that. while i see the need to protect ones assets through a pre nup, the new additional clauses are insane and have nothing to do with love.
15 years? no, normal is per year your married you get a certain amount, but i guess it depends on what they think you'll go for.
how old are you ? if you're young and he stands a chance to make huge money while your together, renegotiate.
OK upside down said what i was really thinking but, i figured you loved the guy and want to stay with him.......i would not
2006-11-29 06:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your "boyfriend" is insisting on a legal contract to avoid being a HUSBAND. He wants to be a landlord, roommate, and sperm donor AND legally treat you like a hooker.
Thank your lucky stars he said this UPFRONT so you can run like hell.
Don't spend a dime for an attorney to look at this pre-nup, spend the dime to get a cab and get out!
2006-11-29 15:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by upside down 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definitley you need to see a lawyer before signing.
2006-11-29 14:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get someone to take a look at it.
2006-11-29 15:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋