my husband is paying attention to everyone else but me...i have been working more but just because i do not talk to him as much doesnt mean i do not love him....what should i do....
2006-11-29 06:31:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i miss u GBD...i love you...
2006-11-29 06:32:11 · update #1
my hubby is a polls & survey member he is on here right now im in the right place trust me....
2006-11-29 06:38:36 · update #2
Oh baby ...... I love you soooooooo much
We'll work it out .... I promise ... LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU
2006-11-29 07:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Gummi Bear Devourer II 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you don't need advice from anyone but yourself you see what the problem is so fix it you have to invest more time into your husband before the one he is giving all of his attention to becomes the wife and you alone. Whatever it took to get him is exactly what it will take to keep him and ignoring him is the quickest way to lose him. He deserves love and attention from his wife not outsiders
Ask your self this question how would you feel if one day you woke up looked out your job's window and he was holding hands and kissing someone else wake up its reality and it can happen
2006-11-29 14:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by evan g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to him. Tell him that just because you've been spending more time at work and away from him doesn't mean you love him any less. Tell him you would like to spend more time with him when you have some spare time and make sure that you make an effort to do it!
2006-11-29 14:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, leave the hyperbole out of it. "Everyone else but me"? Come on.
Now, you need to spend a greater part of your free time together (nights, weekends, days off, etc.). And talk to him more. If he really is "ignoring" you, find out why. Be an adult and work it out. If you're worried about the decrease in time spent together, talk to him about it. You can arrange to take half-days together and hang out.
If you don't talk about it, it will get worse. Trust me.
2006-11-29 14:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by Kballs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him more and make sure you tell him you love him daily. Pay him more attention. If you don't someone else will, sorry to say, but it happens everyday. What's more important your job, or your husband?
2006-11-29 14:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by firelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have a heartfelt chat with your hubby.... Tell him just what you told us... that you're sorry you've been neglecting him lately, but you still care about him... (and make sure you do something concrete about it, too!)
2006-11-29 14:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ AnGeL oF cLaRiTy ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by everyone else but you? Are they all female or is it just everyone in general such as his friends, the kids, etc.?
2006-11-29 14:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say tell him that - tell him that you love him very much but the extra work that you have been doing is making you tired.
2006-11-29 14:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work less hours and spend more quality time together.
2006-11-29 21:13:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are talking to the wrong group of people, unless your husband is here.
2006-11-29 14:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by moviegirl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
working women usually dont give enough time to their hubby though tired try to please him an hour a day will make a difference in your marriage life
2006-11-29 14:35:27 · answer #11 · answered by Eunice M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋