i have never been married. never been undera roof with a woman for even a year. now i am scared of being with someone for a long time, I am particularly scared of low libido and boredom. is it normal, any advise
2006-11-29 06:30:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh honey, it gets better with age, like a fine wine. Now you have to turn the bottle and maybe add some spice, but I have been with the love of my life for eleven years and the sex is better now than it has ever been. Only when you know you are with the right person does it age this way, though. Find that right woman and you will be in heaven, I promise!
2006-11-29 06:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by lee911 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The energy from the new relationship is not there any more and you usually have excessive stress issues especially where finance and kids come into play, but you can't forget to make time for one another. Just the two of you. If you spoil him/her in the beginning, don't stop. The sex gets better because you learn to find new ways to break the monotany. Plus you're totally comfortable with that person. Yes, it's still good--just maybe not as frequent.....But that leaves room for emotional growth! Go 4 it
2006-11-29 07:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it doesn't feel the same after several years of marriage as it did on the first night. Whether it's a good or a bad thing - depends on the circumstances. If high level of sexual excitement is of paramount importance to you, it would probably be unwise of you to get married. But marriage has its own benefits, even though the sex often tends to become a routine.
2006-11-29 06:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like two issues to me.
The first is a natural response,,,
This is a big change in your life
Change can be scary
your scared of something that hasn't happened yet
enjoy what is here and now
The second is an effect of the first
deal with the first and the second will not exist.
2006-11-29 13:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by Tony G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married 3 years...Together 5 yrs....We did have a low point once when we both under lots of stress, but that passed. The sex is wonderful.
2006-11-29 06:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by La Reina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you first have sex its all about fumbling sround trying to find what pleases each other. After a number of years you know and sex is far better for having the knowledge.
2006-11-30 03:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by intelligentbutdizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most it gets better if they stick out the rough parts. Once you know every square inch of someone and you know their mind in a way that only spouses can, you can make them feel better than you could ever imagine.
2006-11-29 07:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the risk of boredom in marriage is lower than the risk of catching STDs outside of marriage.
2006-12-01 05:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by aperson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on yourself and your partner. But personally I think it may be the other way from you are worrying about. If you didnt have the experience before marriage. Those who save their virginity for marriage can enjoy most of it.
2006-11-29 06:37:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you are the marrying kind so i would have a long think about it before you commit because it should be the happiest time of your life if she is a good woman you might be making your own rod
2006-11-29 07:12:02 · answer #10 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋