I was married for 4 years and decided to separate since we would not communicate at all. Its been 7 months and lately about 1 month ago we've been meeting after clubs...or at the club and having sex....once at the club he told me that he was thinking of coming back and i said to him that it is too early....when he comes to see the baby which is 2 and half...i asked him why did he say that....and he said that he was drunk....why would he say so many things when he is drink? And when he is sober its just another person.
2006-11-29 06:25:38 · 21 answers · asked by sweetJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow thats sweet of you guys....I work every day like a f**** crazy and once per week i go out yes clubbing...i'm only 24 years old...shall i turn into a nun???? And when i say drunk i don't mean wasted...he is not drunk wasted...he talks like crazy...just that...how can someone be drunk with 3 drinks???? Goshhh
2006-11-29 06:49:50 · update #1
Have you heard the expression, "a drunk mind speaks a sober soul."
2006-11-29 06:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by selfchecku 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you seperate for lack of communication yet you meet up and get laid? Fu*cking is not 'communication'. Plus...you enjoy screwing a drunk? That sounds romantic. You two may as well just screw one another's brains out and drink like fish. That sounds to be the best form of a relationship for you.
Hey....who watches the 2 and a half year old while you two are out fornicating. Swell example as parents I'd say.
2006-11-29 06:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being drunk brings out the truth of the matter. Use him for a while, until u find the right one. Good Luck!
2006-11-29 06:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by lee911 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
End the relationship unless he stops drinking. It is not possible to have a conversation with someone who is drunk!
2006-11-29 06:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great. Two drunks clubbing and bar hopping with their two year old sitting at home with a babysitter. You both sound like a couple of winners. You deserve each other! Cheers!
2006-11-29 06:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
okay so i believe that people tell the truth when they are drunk and maybe your ex really wants to come back in his heart buthe dont want you to turn him down again or maybe he dont want to lose his freedom but still loves you dearly and wishes things could turn out for the good i mean he must miss his family and you guys have a baby so i think it good be he dont want you to say no again
2006-11-29 06:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by harleygirled 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the majority of the time peoplke who drinks,usually has a tendecy of telling their true feelings,and all the honest details,...but being that he has no recollection of ever telling you such a thing he probably wants back in,..but is too ashamed to admit even though you need more time sweetie,you might have to cut back on the sex and if your not ready to let him back in that is something you have to do...and he would have to understand that much..but weigh the options and ask your self are you doing the right thing,and if your truly ready...
2006-11-29 06:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by curious 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your free easy sex of course he doesn't want to come back he can get what he wants and than leave. He might of been drunk but he just said that to have sex with you again.
2006-11-29 06:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he's not coming back. stop doing this to yourself. you are only prolonging the inevitable. i'd rather be with someone who is sober and can tell me the truth than having to keep him drunk to want to stay with me.
2006-11-29 06:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that seems to happen when ppl drink. esp guys that know if they say the right thing they can get some action. move on and find someone else (someone that can be honest and sober)
2006-11-29 06:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by jenivive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋