How can some guys be in a relationship with a girl and tell them they are in love with them but have the tendency to want to still be a player? This not personal open ended question. I know men that are in their late thirties and fourties that do this. Do men ever outgrow the player stage?
2006-11-29 06:13:20 · 11 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First of all why did you put this in this section,
Players are guys that have some issues inside, women are only going to get so far with them and thats it time to find a new chick. When I say so far I mean emotionally and mentally.
Another thing is some guys buy into what they think the world wants them to be, Lots of money plenty of women and a fast lifestyle. Imagine as a kid these guys idolized rappers or pro athletes and now they have the chance to be like thier idol.
At the end of the day no guy really wants to be 40 hanging out at the bar tryint to get some. At that point many men have dug thier own grave.
So the player thing is overrated, it's nice to get laid alot but evenutally I learned to see women for who they are and not what she looks like. It's about maturity and not being afraid of the truth wich most players are deep down afraid of the truth. To keep from being exposed they go from girl to girl.
2006-11-29 06:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look lemme break it down for you. When you meet a guy he says he is single but in reality he is not. The average man has about 3 to 4 women lemme tell who they are 1. Is the girl he been dealing with for quitesome time baby mama type ;high school sweet heart (something like that ) he wont commit to thisgirl because he feels he is too young. Girl #2 is te one he deals with whenever girl # 1 done pissed him off in some way, this is also the girl who knows about girl #1 and does all the freaky things that she wont do. He wont committ to this girl because he is now starting to enjoy being a player Girl#3 is you, you dont know about girl # 1 or 2. He simply caught your attention because you have a cute face , *** (whatever) so he just couldnt resist. The player will tell #3 (you) all types of lies and excuses just to get in your pants, he has no intentions on making you his main , he wont committ to you at all, becuase he has a main chic and side line Girl # 4 is the one player meet in the club that (just like you ) has a cute *** and face. Only thing is you come to know about this chick throuh friends or here say. This chick is also the one that will give your ultimte player his bad karma. He will fall deep in love with this girl and she wont give a got damn about him. He will even think about dumping girls 1 and 2 for number 4 .Trust me this is how it works.
2016-05-23 02:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the part of being a player, knowing what a woman WANTS to hear, knowing the man's not truthful. That moment of eladed emotions is satisfying on both parts.
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2006-11-29 06:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be so sure? You need to be more sensitive to the fact the suction, gag reflexes, and mouth placement is in the balance. Honey......... they don't call it a job for nothing. Believe me. The last thing on her mind it trying to swallow the thick out COME of the entire "job". Don't try to convince her and don't be offended if she doesn't swallow your spooge. Just be thankful your even getting head at all :)
2006-11-29 06:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're murdering the English language. I think you're referring to womanizers which is the correct term. "Players" is not listed in the dictionary and many people would get confused with your terminology.
2006-11-29 06:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex and love are totally different things. It is the female's tendency to confuse them that causes all these problems.
2006-11-29 06:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever eaten until you were full, but the food was so good you still ate? Same concept I think.
Why do women have 11 pair of black shoes?
2006-11-29 07:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, some men just want to prove it to their selves and they do not care who they hurt in the process of finding out.
2006-11-29 07:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do. some never were to begin with.
the fact is, a lot of women are attracted to guys who act that way. you reap what you sow.
2006-11-29 06:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're getting the "good stuff" at home, they won't stray - I promise.
2006-11-29 06:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋