Why does the BabyMOMMA want the babydaddy back after he gets married?

Question

i have had a cool association with my husbands babymaomma until we got married on saturday now she is calling him crying saying she wanted him to do things with her that hes doing with me. how do i handle this?

Answer 1

You need to explain to your husband that what she is doing is disrespecting your marriage and if he wants to have any kind of relationship with her (for the sake of the kids) without hurting you then he needs to nip it in the bud. Luckily for you, it seems that he is being honest with you about what she is saying and doing. In addition if she is ever going to want to have a working relationship with you, this BS needs to stop now. Basically your husband needs to handle it and you need to communicate to him that it is his responsibility to do something about it.

Finally, she is simply jealous of your relationship with your husband. He is probably different with you then he was with her and she doesn't understand why he couldn't be that way with her. She will eventually get over it, hopefully before she does too much damage to the relationships she is affecting.

Answer 2

First the relationship between you and his childs mother should have been just cordial. None of that talking about what your doing this weekend or etc... You don't handle it you let him handle her if it seems like he's not going to do so then you say your piece. A woman or man doesn't know what they have or had until it's gone

Answer 3

The baby momma syndrome is something that you will always encounter when you date a man with children. Women are quite territorial and they only protect their territory when there is a better dog on the scene. Don't let insecurities corrupt your happiness. If he really wanted her he would've stayed with her. He is your now and he will be as long as you remain teh same woman that he fell in love with. Give him some time to put her in her place if it doesn't work you say what you feel. But remember she will always be there.

Answer 4

Your husband needs to "handle this". He should tell her once and for all to keep her crying to herself, and not bother him or his new family. Sounds like your "cool association" needs to be trimmed down to only include things related to the baby, nothing more.

Answer 5

because he is giving you everything she wanted and he didn't give to her.

look, be patient with her. she'll get over it in time. it's still painful. there really is nothing for you to handle. this is all in your husband's hands. she's gonna mourn, get angry and do all the silly things we women do when we haven't figured out someone just doesn't love us the way we want them to. it may take months, it may take years. but it will happen.
just remember, he married you. not her.

Answer 6

She is acting this way because she knows that he married you. Which means that he is serious about you. Maybe she did not think that you were a threat then because he did not marry u. Girl be careful with this situation .

Answer 7

That baby mama probably thought he would get over you and get back with you but the reality is when its over....ITS OVER! She needs to get a grip and move on with her life. There is nothing for you to handle. Your hubby should put her in her place.

Answer 8

YOU dont HE does. If he's unable, then HE has a problem, which makes it your problem as well. However you can tell her flat out, that what she's doing is harrassment. And you won't tolerate it. If she persists, call the authorities.

Answer 9

you dont handle his he needs to if their relationship was all that why are you married to him and not her dont do notjing he needs to be the man you married and tell her where to go

Answer 10

JUST FORGET ABOUT HER HE IS YOUR HUSBAND NOW SHE NEED TO GET OVER IT AND YOUR HUSBAND SHOULD TELL HER ONLY CALL IF ITS ABOUT THE KIDS NOT ABOUT HER PERSONAL FEELINGS