Me and my ex, sister , brother and sister-in-law , are close, but me and him are not together, and he has another girlfriend, but i been with him for ten years, so we are close.But they keep tell that the don;t care that me an him are not together , because i'm still there friend
2006-11-29 05:51:57 · 13 answers · asked by martha h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think it is ok to be close to his family they are your friends
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2006-11-29 05:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly you should. You are still part of that family and they would probably be hurt if you discontinued visiting and contacting them. If you were married for 10 years to their brother then you are not a kid and so should be able to behave as an adult and not badmouth your ex in front of them. As a matter of fact you and your ex may end up being friends with one and other which is even nicer.
2006-11-29 05:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you secretly despise these people? If not, then do not worry about it. It has been my experience that most in-laws, former and present plot my death through the use of overly elaborate traps and poisons- you may want to consider the random threats in the mail that are constructed from cut-out letters and powdery substance on the envelopes.
2006-11-29 06:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by RHJ Cortez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
I would say that it depends on how you feel about it and how you broke up. In my case even I tried to keep my friendship with my ex' sister it was not the same . We talked and she understood that even I loved the entire family she would be always his sister and it was not healthy for me to stay there, I remarked that I would be there if she needed me anytime. Good luck!!!!
2006-11-29 06:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by be 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would'nt hang around them while hes around. Eventually one day he might get use to you being around and at that time he'll respectfully make sure the other girls not around. Im in the same situation only my ex-friends mom stays next door and she calls me to come see her all the time,even the sisters. And the family members that come in for the holidays. So he does'nt have that much say so, and has gotten use to it.
2006-11-29 06:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by My two cents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your there friend then thats great at the end of the day if you was friends with them when you was with him there should not be no difference now your not but remember a ex is a ex for a reason so dont be there friend if your only doing it to get him back
2006-11-29 05:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually, yes! it's painful enough to forget about your ex without being constantly reminded of his whereabouts 24/7. take it from one who knows, they will change the relationship if you don't. Be the first to keep it cordial, professional, casual.
2006-11-29 05:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by dad of dallas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You brake up with him not with their family. But I suggest not to go to his house or visit they family when his around to avoid conflicts. Good Luck!!
2006-11-29 06:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being there friends, they got to know you as a person, and what you were to him, doesn't affect what you are to them, and that is a friend.
2006-11-29 05:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by I answer ur questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should stop seeing them becuase what ever was between you and your ex... his family is different matter..i hope this makes since
2006-11-29 06:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by )*-*sweet*-*( 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still care for them and they care for you then stay in touch with them. i still saty in touch with my ex's family and he has no problem with it. even if his g/f had a problem i wouldn't care.
2006-11-29 05:57:40 · answer #11 · answered by mmh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋