So me and a couple of my best friends were chillin im my dorm room. They started talking about going with another one of our good friends to Chicago next weekend. They were talking like I wasn't even there, and didn't even invite me to go. I'm really hurt by this. Should I just play it off, or confront them?
2006-11-29 05:46:27 · 10 answers · asked by Shorty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The same thing happened to me my freshman year. My roommate and a couple of the girls from my floor were invited by another girl to go home with her for a weekend. I was not. Some time after that, my roommate asked me why I didn't go. I said I wasn't invited. She said oh you could have asked. you could have come. I felt if I wasn't invited, I'm not going to invite myself. I still feel that way. Turns out, the girl who did the inviting, didn't like me. I don't know if thats why she didn't invite me, but whatever. If I could do it again, I'd ask someone other than the inviter about it. See if they know why you're not invited. Sorry to say, but college students, just like high schoolers, can be sooooo mean. It was probably an intentional snub and you should think about it before you consider them your "best friend" and think about moving in with someone after the dorms. Good luck
2006-11-29 06:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did any thing previously happen that could make them mad at you? If not, then just say, "hey you all didn't invite me!"
Or tell them I feel left out. Let them know that you noticed how they treated you and that you are not afraid to jump in the middle of the conversation.
2006-11-29 13:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by All Of the Above 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to recollect that did u unknowingly do something that might have hurt them. for every matter in life, inwardly lay the blame upon yourself...it means more than just getting invited.
of course u need to talk to them and get things straightened out right away. atleast you should be clear about who are your friends and who are your acquaintances
2006-11-29 14:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by niks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront them. They should have invited you. If they act mean find new friends.
2006-11-29 13:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop letting your so called "best" friends chill in your dorm room with you for starters....Real friends don't treat you that way.
2006-11-29 13:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats well mean sometimes i get real angry when they dont invite me sometimes i (((punch))) some boys lol x anyways u should make some new MORE friends to make ur "best friends" jealous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! dont feel hurt!!! just enjoy..i got hurt A lot!! i know how u feel but im feeling ok this year lol xxx ((i wasnt a hard girl or got a temper lol x)
2006-11-29 14:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How rude, confront them! You deserve some answers.
2006-11-29 13:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how you feel, they may do it again and it will hurt so let em know now so that in future you r not ignored.
2006-11-29 13:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by buttercup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them what time you are all leaving
2006-11-29 13:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt they should be your friends anymore if they pissed u off!!
2006-11-29 13:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋