have you ever experienced BDSM??

Question

details, please..........it's for a school project ....thank yoouuu-->in advance!!!

both. the ones who have experienced the life style and also just in bed.

i mean JUST IN BED!
sry for the earlier confusion :">

Answer 1

Funny sort of school you go to...

Answer 2

Yup. What details would you like? Are you looking for people who have experimented in the bedroom, or lived the lifestyle?
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The way I see it, there are basically two ways people experience BDSM, and I'm not talking top and bottom though that's part of it. There are the couples who exchange roles and for whom the domination aspect is more about controlling the scenario they've created than it is about actually controlling their partner, and visa versa. In a situation where you're controlling the scene, you may also control your partner (give them directions, etc.) but that's not the actual point of what you're doing. In the opposite situation, where you're controlling your partner, and that is the goal of the exercise, you will also necessarily control the scene.

For me, personally, BDSM is more about trust than pain. The top asks for and receives the trust and cooperation of the bottom. In every relationship I've been in that practiced this, the bottom actually has more power in the dynamic, because they have (ideally, sometimes things get out of hand) the ability to stop everything by revoking their trust.

If you need more details feel free to ask via email.

Answer 3

Get into some bdsm blogs, that will be a better place to research it.

Some speciality stores have sections where customers can describe why they like the products they bought.

Don't have too much fun with the project.