I let my husband look at porn, masterbate, watch T.V. and all that other stuff. What I ment by boobs in his face, was if I walked in the room and he was with another woman, not touching her, she was just naked and in his face I would consider that cheating. I have been to a strip club, they aren't that bad if your not sitting right at the stage or getting a lap dance. But in the situation of the women being in my husbands face, I think it's cheating. Do you think it's strange to go with him? He doesn't even go, it's just come up before. We went once while we were dating. And no it wasn't that bad, and I wouldn't care if I went with him.
2006-11-29 04:57:49 · 24 answers · asked by Regina D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OF COURSE IT IS LIKE CHEATING BUT NOT EXACTLY AS LONG AS HE IS NOT TOUCHING HER WITH HIS HANDS OR TOUNGE!!! NEVER BEEN 2 A CLUB WITH MY MAN BUT I AM THINKING ABOUT IT.
2006-11-29 05:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by NONE OF UR BIZ!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been to strip clubs together. He used to go without me before we were married, but he always called to let me know he was going. If he was sneaking around and doing it, I would have been upset. The ones we went to, touching did occur. He hasn't been to one in 6 years. I was invited to a male review and he did not like that idea. If strip clubs were as they used to be with strictly no touching, I wouldn't care. But I believe touching someone elses' naked body is a line that should not be crossed if your married.
2006-11-29 10:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think of that is inevitably dishonest, yet when he change into hiding it from then you definitely he for sure felt like he change into doing something incorrect. refer to him about it, tell him how a lot it upsets you, besides the actual undeniable actuality that he's spending a lot funds on it. enable him recognize it really is a deal breaker and also you'll go away. Ask him what you are able to do to advance your sex existence so perchance he received't experience the favor to bypass get lap dances. Ask him what he likes about it and spot if there will be a fashion to fulfill those needs some incorrect way. in case you truly imagine that there might want to correctly be getting better than a lap dance, go away the jerk thats nasty.
2016-10-07 23:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you have rephrased, let me rephrase also. Cheating to me is ANYTHING done in secret from your partner. Be that drugs, gambling or sex. If you consent to whatever activity then it can not be cheating. An example to the extreme is swingers. They have each others full consent to have sex with other partners, then it is not cheating.
The specific example you are citing above, even if you did not give express consent, would hardly be considered cheating. Look but no touch can not be cheating. Now, if you have told him your boundaries, and he willingly exceeded those, then sure he is cheating the rules on you.
2006-11-29 05:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone draws there own line. It sounds like you are a "look but do not touch" sort of gal. In other words, you view compromising physical intimacy/contact as cheating and view a lap dance to be such a compromise. Your tolerance level is more than some, less than others. . .
2006-11-29 05:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by DJL2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay. If your guy went and got another girl and was fooling around naked in your house with her then that would be cheating because it would probably not have stopped if you hadn't walked in.
Going out for an entertaiing night in a club where he'll get tittilated and have fun isn't
2006-11-29 05:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by rchlbsxy2 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont think so in a strip club because other people are around but if i walked in my house and saw it the **** would hit the fan so to speak.
2006-11-29 05:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by seaangell304 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went with my ex bf and his buddy to a strip club a few times.. even was there well he got a lap dance..
it didn't really bother me that much.. i suppose it should have... i don't think i'd consider it cheating but it did make me feel down about myself...
meh.
i haven't been to one iwth my current bf..
but i know he wouldn't get a lap dance with me there :)
2006-11-29 05:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is the question? boobs in face or your husband going to strip clubs?
2006-11-29 05:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by ~dat~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My fiancee loves for me to take her to strip clubs. I don't care for them at all, but she gets turned on. She's really hot and enjoys the strippers checking her out. She's bi curious, but never really done anything physically about it.
2006-11-29 05:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its a good thing........for the relationship that is. As COOL as that is......... like itd be so cool and fun to go with my gf. but as a husband, i wouldnt want to go. Its just not healthy. Having other girls on your mind....lusting after other girls.....that lust can lead to other actions. Why tempt myself like that?
There is a fine line, but big difference between being a cool gf/bf and a good wife/husband.
2006-11-29 05:01:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋