Ok, I think this will be the last question for me today (Asking questions are really killing my points!..jk)
Anyways, once I have been proven to have made a mistake, I will certainly admit to it. I have made several mistakes with my relationship (never cheating or dishonesty) along the lines of jumping the gun under certain circumstances or having somewhat jealous tendencies. I know that this has put a bit of a damper on my relationship with my GF of 8 months. I have admitted my mistakes to her and apologized deeply along with flowers, card and a cooked dinner and movie. She says that she forgives me and understands. However, things still feel different than what they were when we first started dating.
Ladies...What are some things that men could do for you to help bring back a flame that was once there but seems to have died down over time? What could really get the flame cooking again for you and what would be the recommended way to keep it cooking?
Thanks,
Chris
2006-11-29 04:42:38 · 6 answers · asked by Chris L 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just make sure that she knows that your jealous tendencies are not because of some type of mental disorder or obsession which I say this because I'm a female and that is what most of us think, because we feel like, why should you be jealous if I'm with a certain person then that is who I am with, or you could have her understand that you have a history of heartbreak and don't want it to happen again which I don't blame you, it would be hard but if she doesn't seem suspicious or you don't have an idea that she is cheating try you hardest to trust her and just let her know that it would never happen and let her know that you do trust her because if you don't then you shouldnt be with her and after 8 mo nths you should be okay if she hasn't done anything to you yet you are going to be fine honesty above everything else is the most important
2006-11-29 05:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get therapy or join a group to build up your self esteem. The reason you are jealous is most likely the fact that you have issues. If you make effort to really make sure this is well taken care of she will trust you again... Buying flowers is a temporary band-aid... in the back of her head she will be waiting for your ugly monster issue to come out again..... If she knows you are really working toward having a healthy relationship you will have a burning forest fire on your hands.. Not just a little tiny flame...
2006-11-29 05:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After what 'fairly eco-friendly Eyes' says dare i remark? LOL. i recognize adult males commonly do have a acceptance for all of those issues, yet there are those who're unlike that, there are those who deal with their women like princesses and nonetheless get kicked in the tooth, so some cases even at the same time as adult males do the right ingredient or deal with their women the right way they're nonetheless incorrect, at cases it does change right into a no-win project, i wager the moral of the tale is to each and every 'come across' the different and then behave therefore, in case you're trying to be a stereotype then it style of feels it really is doomed to fail. i in my opinion dealt with a lady the way i got here across her and gave her all that she needed, and that i advise all, which include the liberty that she needed, i change into incorrect, it occurs. sturdy success.
2016-10-07 23:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my personal experience, when the flame goes down, it is Jesus who feeds the fire. The best thing my husband and I both do is seek God together.
A wise friend recently said (concerning relationships in general): "When we are trying to please one another, we miss the mark, but when we are trying to please God first, everything else falls into place"
That is very much true in marriage and all relationships. When we are seeking God first, we naturally forgive one another, love one another passionately, and are mutually satisfied. It is the only 100% sure way to keep the fire alive and strong!
2006-11-29 04:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by Consuming Fire 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, there may not be anything you can do. If you wine and dine her too much it's like your trying to buy back her love... trust me you don't want that, you want it to be genuine. It's probably nothing you can do but talk to her. The situation is in her hands if she don't trust you there's not a thing you can do about it.
2006-11-29 11:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by Cincere80'sBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a poem or just make wild animal love jk i dont know you pretty much covered it try flowers or take her to the place where you went out for your 1st date
2006-11-29 04:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by duckie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋