Is it really such a bad thing to want to change sex?

Question

.....yes, really I meant to change gender.

...society kinda' makes out that its bad, but is it - and why?

....and if I was a woman, I'd be a lesbian!

Answer 1

If you tryin to live for christ then it is.

Answer 2

Is it really such a bad thing to want to change sex?

That all depends on a lot of things. If your suffering badly with Gender Identity Disorder/Gender Dysphoria then no! it's salvation!!! it's no easy thing to set about doing, if you get it wrong late on then yeah it's bad. I'd say about 70% of society thinks it's bad, but that's their problem. Ignorance breeds negativity and visa versa, unfortunately that's one of societies biggest problems. Not many people can be bothered to try and understand, some don't have the capability, some are just militant homophobes.(mstithead here above me, classic example.) then there's the people that think your just a sick, twisted perv. I'm not sorry for what i'm gonna say now and i know this will get some peoples backs up, well i don't care, because i know i'm right. The Transvestite/forced feminization world doesn't do us any favours what so ever. While ever i couldn't care less what they get up to, society does and we get tarred with the same brush. It's amazing how many people think that your only going through with it as an excuse to get shagged up the a $$ by some fella and not get called gay. BOLLOX. or their just too wrapped up in the bible. If you decide to make the change get ready to be told your a sinner, A LOT, and I swear if one more ***** Muslim tells me i'm going to hell, i'll start world war 3 on my own, OH YEAH IT REALLY IS SUCH A BAD THING TO THE GOD BOTHERING SQUAD
That brings me onto friends and family. I'll break no bones here also. A vast majority of Transsexuals pay a heavy price, if your friends and family aren't rock solid and you do decide to go through with it, you may as well kiss them good bye now. Believe me hon when they don't understand, they'll soon tell you how bad they think it is.
All in all as far as a lot of people are concerned yeah it's a bad thing, that's why you should sit down think about things very, very seriously. It's the biggest thing anyone can do in a lifetime and i can honestly say massive, massive, huge, very large changes come about. The hugeness of it all is mind blowing.

It's good to have people to talk to, but it's also easy to be influenced by anybody including the for mentioned 70%, don't go there, talk with people all day long, but listen to yourself. FOR YOU PERSONALLY, ONLY YOU WILL KNOW IF IT'S SUCH A BAD THING.

Answer 3

I have seen some answers to your questions, and I would like to comment on them-

Opinionated said:

According to what God wants yes. You were made the sex you are because thats the way God wanted you to be. Now to change that its like saying God's work is wrong!

>I want to add this point of view- if you were born with cancer or a cleft palate, is it questioning God to correct it?

persussionist2003 said:

perhaps God made you in the wrong body to challenge you, perhaps you were meant to rise up and overcome, and change.

>I like to think this is the case (if I believed there was a God to begin with)- what better way to challenge an otherwise smart and talented person than to throw a doozy of a stumbling block? By the way, transsexuals tend to be MUCH smarter than the rest of the average population.

MsBoobHead said:

Go ahead and cut your d*ck off, maybe you can have it made into a dildo, f@g.

>Stick a sock in it- this person can to this forum for some answers and some useful info. Putrid spew like this should be kept to yourself.

I am a MtF transsexual my self and I am looking forward to the day when I can live as a woman, like I should have been. My mind is decidedly female, my body is male- I cannot cahnge my mind to match my body, since I won't be the same person after such a procedure. I am changing my body to match who i am inside.

Basically, I am taking a square peg (my body) and knocking off some corners so I can fit in a round hole (the sex I should have been)- I will never be a true round peg, but I would be close enough for comfort.

Answer 4

I honestly don't know. I think some of the answers here are bad though. It doesn't mean you're going to hell or Jesus doesn't love you,etc. (Those who say that have greater problems of their own to deal with) I would see it as a sign that the person needs to think about why they want to, and what is behind it, and will it really benefit them? Most likely there are bigger issues behind it than simply wanting to change sex, and changing sex may not necessarily be the answer. When the person does think about it, they may or may not find it to be a bad thing. I really can't give the answer, and neither can anyone else. I also cannot judge. All I can say is give it some serious thought and pray about it also. You will find if you talk to God Himself, you might be surprised what He says. He can give you a better answer than I can.

Whatever you decide, may you have the best of luck.

Answer 5

I believe that some women were born that were suppose to be men and vise versa. It isn't something that you choose, it is just what you ARE. There was just a mistake in the processing of your genes. It is just like a child being born with any other abnormality.
You have to do what YOU feel is best for yourself. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks or says. These people don't have to live inside your body and have no idea what you are feeling. And also remember this..........If you can't or don't love yourself the way you are.........How can you expect anyone else to love you? Become who you are comfortable with, become the person that you can love, become the person that when you look into the mirror that you are comfortable with the person looking back at you. And above all else....Do whatever it is that is going to make you feel complete and that is going to bring you happiness in this world. This world is tough enough to live in without at least feeling happy within yourself.
And don't worry about making everyone else happy. MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY.

Answer 6

The only bad thing about it is facing all the hate and losing the ability to reproduce. Oh, and also becoming a criminal/second class citizen in some places too. And of course never being able to find a partner that isn't a male tranny chaser. Besides that it's great to finally be ones true self.

Answer 7

Oh, hon...

To many people it is, just as same sex love is "bad," medical treatment is "bad" (ask a Christian Scientist about this one!) and a myriad of other things are "bad."
Socrates got it right, in my book: "To thine own self be true."

Changing sex will be the most demanding task you ever undertake. The stress is like nothing else in this Universe. I have often said this about my transition: I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy- and I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world! It is exhilerating, and potentially deadly. If you live in the US, your chances of being MURDERED are 1 in 11. As you will find from the answers here, there is no shortage of hateful, smallminded people who will stand in your way. To transition, you will need to face them when you are tired, ill, or just not at your best.

If you transition...take note!
Gay men are particularly vicious. They sound a lot like the religious bigots. Both will try to hurt you- or worse. Be careful. There's a LOT of misogyny out there- and you willl face it without the rights and support of other women.

Guys who are too stupid to know that a woman can be 100% woman without being born in the "right" body have issues with repressed homosexuality. They cannot learn. Avoid them and their small minded violence. Read the answers here to see some of them in action.

My best advice would be to get straight with yourself about your desires. Truth is, only you have the answers. Know thyself- and then act. If this is who you are, then you already have your answer.

You have only to live your life in whatever way you see fit. No way God could punish you for your life if you live this way.

Answer 8

obviously its a huge decision...and if its ok for you, you'll feel it. You'll know inside you that you're supposed to be the other sex...and as for "how God made you," perhaps God made you in the wrong body to challenge you, perhaps you were meant to rise up and overcome, and change.

there are lots of people who will support you and help you, so if you're not surround by those people, seek them out...it'll be so much easier....good luck

Answer 9

You want to change how you perform sex? Good for you. It sounds like you are listening to your partner's needs.

There's also nothing wrong with wanting to change GENDER, if you truly feel this need. I have met many successful FTMs and MTFs - I wonder how they truly operated as their previous gender.

Good luck!

Answer 10

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Answer 11

It's strange to me, but if that's what you gotta do to happy, then do it. The crossdressers I've met have been some of the coolest people I've ever met. Once you really find yourself, I guess that's all that matters.