Why Do People Think Its Digusting To Be Annerxic Or Belemic?

Question

I'm Annerxic And I Used To Be Belemic.
Guys Always Say They Want A Small Girl.
Then They Show All These Super Models That Are What You Want To Be.
So Girls Throw Up.
They Just Want To Be Considered Pretty In Everone Elses Eyes.
Once They're Considered Beautiful Then Maybe They'll Love Themselves.
So Why Is It Not Okay For Anyone Else Now.
Everyone's The One's Putting Images In Our Heads.
Why Don't We See Average People In Magazines.
This World Has To Stop Or Photograph's And Theses Stupid Manly Epitomes Have To Stop.
They're Killing Young Beautiful Girls.
I'm Still Annerxic But Still Whats Wrong With Wanting To Be Loved?

I'm Annerxic And I Used To Be Belemic.
Guys Always Say They Want A Small Girl.
Then They Show All These Super Models That Are What You Want To Be.
So Girls Throw Up.
They Just Want To Be Considered Pretty In Everone Elses Eyes.
Once They're Considered Beautiful Then Maybe They'll Love Themselves.
So Why Is It Not Okay For Anyone Else Now.
Everyone's The One's Putting Images In Our Heads.
Why Don't We See Average People In Magazines.
This World Has To Stop Or Photograph's And Theses Stupid Manly Epitomes Have To Stop.
They're Killing Young Beautiful Girls.
I'm Still Annerxic But Still Whats Wrong With Wanting To Be Loved?

To Answer One Of Y'alls questions This Has Made Me Diabetic.

Okay We've All Agreed I Can't Spell Okay Get Over It I'm 15.

Answer 1

First of all, it's anorexic, not annerxic and bulemic, not belemic.
In answer to your question, people think it's disgusting because it doesn't look nice. Why do people think a piece of c r a p is disgusting? Because it doesn't look nice. Now I am not comparing you to that at all, I'm just answering your question. I am glad you are no longer bulemic, that's good news. The media (magazines, TV, etc.) are hugely responsible for the amount of girls with anorexia, and I agree that something MUST be done. But I don't know what I can do on my own, so it has to be the general population working together to abolish these awful "models" that create such huge influences. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be loved, everyone does, but you have to understand that being skinny or not is NOT what makes people love you. I know it sounds cliched, but it's true. No matter how beautiful you are, if you are a little b***h, no one will want to be with you. If you are fat but are a good person who is nice to be around, then you will be loved. You must get help to put on weight...can't you see what this has done to you? diabetes doesn't sound like a picnic to me...
It doesn't matter what people think of the way you look, as long as you are healthy. I wish you the very best of luck and I hope you will get back on track.

Answer 2

honey, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be loved, we all want that. But killing yourself to be what you perceive to be beautiful is not worth it and if some guys thinks you need to be that skinny to be love, well then find another guy. He is an idiot. Beauty comes from within, I know that sounds cliche, but it really is true. The images portayed in the magazines are inacurate. They don't portray the average woman in America or the world, unless they are looking at some country that is starving. Spain has done alot to battle the problem by banning these models in fashion shows. I can only hope the world will follow Spain's example. It is the first step in the right direction.

Answer 3

Oh honey, if you continue you'll have much worse things to deal with, believe me! I am anorexic, have been since I was 10. I'm now 25. I have osetoarthritis, osteoperosis, tendon, joint, and ligament problems. I have broken 29 bones. At one point I had to have IVs not to gain weight but to replace the mineral levels in my body. I had traces of everything that should be on a blood test. I'm 5'8" and used to weigh 92lbs. I'm better than I was but not a day goes by that I don't intentionally pass up food, that I don't loathe my reflection in the mirror or compare myself as you do to those sticks.
Guys say they want a small girl because they have been conditioned, just as we have been conditioned to BE that girl. If you ask them honestly, however (and most teenage boys will take any kind of woman who will have them!), they think bones are nasty. You are right. It has to change! And the only way it will ever change is if you decide to rage against those airbrushed, starved-out, glossy magazine covers! We are letting the media tell us what we should be instead of telling them that we want to be ourselves. Don't subscribe to "beauty" magazines; they'll only make you feel worse. Choose to be you. You are beautiful.

Answer 4

Yes, most guys do say they want a small girl. But becoming annorexic or belemic is NOT the way to go about doing something like that. Eat right, exorcise and drink lots of water and you will be just as small, and much much healthier. & I agree that they are showing these 90 pound models in magazines and on runways and stuff, but to be honest most guys want a girl with some meat on her bones. Guys like curves. You can be pretty in everyone elses eyes when you have confidence in yourself. Confidence is the MOST attractive feature a girl can have.
You don't have to be annorexic to be loved. People should love you for you, no matter what you look like, and those who don't, you shouldn't want in your life anyway.

Answer 5

1. Can you agree it is not possible to control what other people think of you?

2. If you can't control what other people think of you. Why would you let someone else deceide what is right for you?

3. So why not decide for yourself what is best for you.

4. Actions for the sake of beauty that could kill you and make you sterile are clearly not healthy and in your best interest.

5. Maybe it is just the type of guy you are attracted to that is shallow and obsessed with morbidly thin girls.

6. Why not set goals for yourself that are not food related that improve you physically, mentally, and spiritually to work toward that would make you feel better about yourself.

7. The right type of guys are attracted to girls with goals, dreams, and are making something of themselves. Maybe try asking a guy out.

Answer 6

Models are overrated when it comes to defining beauty.They merely sell it.

Try some new reading/TV choices,stay away from E entertainment,women's magazines and avoid supermarket tabloids
at all costs.

Body Dysmorphia can be aggravated

by reading these things.

It's a fantasy world that only 1% of the population is lucky enough to afford anyway.DO you really need these people
as a role model?What about your parents?
What about friends that love you and understand you?

One last thing,You don't have to accept these images paraded in front of you,
it's YOUR head and you can DENY them power
over it.

Answer 7

It's not disgusting it's unhealthy. There are lots of healthy ways to be thin. When you starve your body yes you do become thin but it is an ugly thin. When you lose weight the healthy way you look alot better.
Also, I don't know where your from but here in California I know that most guys like girls with a little meat on there bones.

Answer 8

I always wondered why someone would want to please someone so much that they will risk their life just to be thin-makes no sense to me at all. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be loved,but, if a person really loved you he wouldn't have you go through something so awful just to please him. Personally I don't care what anyone thinks about my looks. I feel so bad for those who find this way of life necessary.Not all guys want small girls you know? I do agree with you on the magazine issue though, I would like to see normal sized women in those magazines.

Answer 9

Anorexia & Bulemia are both psychological disorders it has been proven, and its not disgusting its a disease. Some guys like small girls but not ones they can break, they like girls that can run a mile without passing out because they don't eat. Also if you have the disorder not to be mean but learn how to spell it.

Answer 10

What those disorders to to your body is gross. And if some guy finds all your bones sticking out and no figure sexy then there is something wrong with him. You are right about the magazines they should have normal people in them. I dont think you should look at them if it gets into your mind that much. I look at them all the time and I still eat.