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He's really self conscious about this and we now only make love when he's had a few to drink? Help!

2006-11-29 03:46:05 · 12 answers · asked by donch03 2 in Health Men's Health

12 answers

Easy. Alcohol densensitizes your nervous system, which means he has to go longer when he drinks to reach the same level of stimulation. If you're worried about how long he can go, have you tried having him masturbate an hour before? Most of the time guys go longer in the second round than they do in the first. Hope this helps!

2006-11-29 04:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by cheerpowerx 2 · 0 0

How long can you go on that way?
My dear, you have been unlucky because sex is an Art with genetic bases while some men look like rabbits only!
There is nothing to do because the premature ejaculation or the short duration of the acts just are a mental (nervous) problem mainly. Alcohol just intoxicate the mind too and so, while penis remains erected (and you're lucky about that), the act goes on lasting longer, of course.
I don't know how long we're together , but I don't thing that such situation can be protracted for long. In a couple the most part of the separations happen for money and sex problems. As usually I say if sex is an important matter in a woman's life then she should get a change. On the contrary, if you already feel satisfied while sex itself can't justify a separation, then love and be near your few-endowed man anyway.

2006-11-29 04:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0 0

Hi there,
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I hope it helps

2014-09-11 04:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Alcohol stimulates the GABA and opiate receptors, which send "pleasureable" feelings, and thereby reduces the amount of work your brain has to do by producing endorphins on it's own. It's the same way as a painkiller works. You feel better because you feel numb. The opiate receptors have created a flood of endorphins that can make everything else feel "numb".

2006-11-29 05:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by gtrplayer5555 2 · 0 0

Try the all natural method of Aphrodisiac Foods:

Aniseed
A very popular aphrodisiac with many culinary uses. It has been used as an aphrodisiac since the Greeks and the Romans, who believed aniseed had special powers. Sucking on the seeds is said to increases your desire.

Asparagus
Given it's phallic shape, asparagus is frequently enjoyed as an aphrodisiac food. Feed your lover boiled or steamed spears for a sensuous experience. The Vegetarian Society suggests "eating asparagus for three days for the most powerful affect".

Almond
A symbol of fertility throughout the ages. The aroma is thought to induce passion in a female. Try serving Marzipan (almond paste) in the shapes of fruits for a special after-dinner treat.

Arugula
Arugula or "rocket" seed has been documented as an aphrodisiac since the first century A.D. This ingredient was added to grated orchid bulbs and parsnips and also combined with pine nuts and pistachios. Arugula greens are frequently used in salads and pasta.

Avocado
The Aztecs called the avocado tree "Ahuacuatl which translated means "testicle tree". The ancients thought the fruit hanging in pairs on the tree resembled the male's testicles. This is a delicious fruit with a sensuous texture. Serve in slices with a small amount of Balsamic vinegar and freshly ground pepper.

Bananas
The banana flower has a marvelous phallic shape and is partially responsible for popularity of the banana as an aphrodisiac food. An Islamic myth tells the tale that after Adam and Eve succumbed to the "Apple" they started covering their "nudity" with banana leaves rather than fig. From a more practical standpoint bananas are rich in potassium and B vitamins, necessities for sex hormone production.

Basil (sweet basil)
Is said to stimulate the sex drive and boost fertility. It is also said to produce a general sense of well being for body and mind.

Broccoli Rabe (And Other Mustard Greens)
The ground seeds of various plants in the brassica family were believed to increase virility. In the case of broccoli rabe its more likely a myth created to get people to eat this bitter vegetable.

Chocolate
The Aztecs referred to chocolate "nourishment of the Gods". Chocolate contains chemicals thought to effect neurotransmitters in the brain and a related substance to caffeine called theobromine. Chocolate contains more antioxidant (cancer preventing enzymes) than does red wine. The secret for passion is to combine the two. Try a glass of Cabernet with a bit of dark chocolate.

If those don't do it. I suggest have him see a Urologist, it could be physical. Or chemical try something like Viagra:

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If you have a problem getting or keeping an erection, your sex life can suffer. You should know that you’re not alone. In fact, more than half of all men over 40 have difficulties getting or maintaining an erection. This issue, also called erectile dysfunction (ED), occurs with younger men as well.

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2006-11-29 04:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by iMedic 2 · 0 1

there are ways for him to "learn " how to last longer. although it may be weird to go to a book store or library but maybe ordering on line might help you. basically one way is before ejaculation have him pull out to stop the sensation. But practicing is the best method.

2006-11-29 03:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by juno406 4 · 1 0

I believe your man suffers from premature ejaculation,and can only prolong it while under the influence of Alcohol, he should see a Urologist,and seek treatment for it .

2006-11-29 06:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Get that man a beer

2006-11-29 14:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by WiseWon 3 · 0 1

When you have sex does he jackhammer you from start to finish?If so you should get him to slow down. It could be that he's just selfish and just wants to get off.

2006-11-29 05:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

poor you. that must suck. personally with me i dont have that problem but when i do drink its like i cant get it out.

2006-11-29 04:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by mistatnn 2 · 0 0

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