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my longterm boyfriend has a drinking problem wich I fear would be bad for our future together especially as lately he is been thinking about creating a family... I love him soo much. I need to help him. we live in london and I would prefere an italian professional for him... any suggestion?

2006-11-29 03:39:17 · 3 answers · asked by kim78 2 in Health Men's Health

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First of all , if he has a drinking problem, you have no future together. Please dont start a family without him getting help first.I know you love this man, you dont say anything about what his drinking is doing to you.I know it is not a good situation your in. I cant beleive your thinking about a family with him, not now. And i know you feel like you can help him, but you cant. That man can only be helped if HE wants it. not you.I dont mean to be coming down on you, but please, think about it.I am an alcoholic, and I thoght a family would help everything. I wouldnt drink so much because I would have them to take care of. WRONG!! It was just more people for me to hurt.So please think long and hard before you do something you will regret.

2006-11-29 04:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by Leneki 4 · 1 0

the biggest problem will be in the future. Alcohol abuse will lead down a bad road for his health and your marriage. He will become prone to physical and mental abuse to you and your children. He needs to stop drinking. period. Or you really need to find your self someone else. period.

2006-11-29 11:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by juno406 4 · 2 0

i agree with him

2006-11-29 12:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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