i have tired everything to get pregnant nothing works?

Question

we have been tiring for alomost 2 yrs,taken all medication itdesnt seem to work,we r thinking of having test tube babies,is this a good deceision?

Answer 1

did u and ur partner had urself medically tested for infertility. i also tried for a baby for 2 years but now i am 28 weeks pregnant. try having sex in the morning time and lie on ur back after sex. try not to move from the bed for atleast 20 minutes after having sex. sometimes it's the stress of making a baby everytime u have sex that plays a major role in keeping u away from getting pregnant.stop thinking that u are doing it to make a baby and keep ur mind off this thought for sometime and i m sure it will work. the more u r stressed with this goal of having a baby the more u r likely to delay getting pregnant. if still things do not work then go for the IVF/test tube baby coz it's a good decision.

Answer 2

It took us 1 1/2 years to get pregnant with our first baby, For lots of other couples it has taken longer, and they were successful. It can happen to you too. The best time to get pregnant is when you are ovulating. You know you are ovulating when you see/feel mucus on your underwear or on your toilet paper after you wipe. Have relations every day during ovulation, and even for a few days after just to be on the safe side. Your hormones are higher during the day, so have relations then, and not the night time, or for added fun, do BOTH! I would have to say having a test tube baby is a bad idea. The Dr. would extract up to 7-8 eggs from you (this is very painful, not to mention dangerous) and fertilize all of them. They would only implant into you the "strongest" of the babies, and therefore killing the others. Not all of the babies will survive, sometimes they do though, are you prepared for having triplets, or more? Also, it costs minimum $10,000 and there are no guarantees. Just relax, when the time is right, it'll happen for you. If it doesn't, there are over a million babies out there without homes, waiting for somebody like you who wants them, who will love and provide for them. My girlfriend has 7 kids, 2 are from her womb, the other 5 are adopted, and they travel all over the world. There are better options than having a test tube baby, explore them first. Also, maybe the medication you are taking isn't helping but hindering. My husband has very adverse reactions to medication, when the drug is supposed to do something, it ususally does the opposite. You might be like him. Check out the info. below, they can help you to get pregnant. Good luck and may the Lord bless your Harvest.

Answer 3

The IVF "Gift" program has about a 30% success rate. Be sure to check out the statistics at the clinic you use for this very expensive procedure. Are you going to a true fertility specialist right now?

You may have multiple babies at once - are you prepared if this happens?

Good luck. In the meantime you might want to start getting on some adoption waiting lists.

Answer 4

I know how you feel. Just keep your head up and pray. Do what feels right, if you think having a test tube baby is necessary then do it, don't let others discourage you because you want something different. I've heard of people who had to wait 3 of 4 years but finally conceived. Patience is a virtue!!! Either way good luck to you.

Answer 5

Try thinking of adopting a child. It will be good for the child as well as you. Test tubes do work but is it necessary when so many babies are there with no loving home to go to. All Children are dear to God

Answer 6

Check whether ovulation takes place without any drugs. This can be done thru sonography. If ovaries are functioning OK, then check whether fallopian tubes are OK. If these points are OK, avoiding stress may help u to conceive. During the ovulation period you may go on holiday with ur spouse in order to reduce stress. IVF treatment is costly and success rate is low.

Answer 7

It took me 6 yrs of tests, fertility drugs, and praying. But we decided to adopt (best decision I ever made!). After my daughter turned two, I found out I was pregnant. I think I just forgot about trying and wanting so much, I relaxed and it happened!

Answer 8

Relax and wait a little more longer. Sometimes, it takes a longer time. Just relax. I know of someone who got pregnant after 5 yrs. , when she forgot trying hard to get pregnant, relax and be patient,

Answer 9

placed your pride aside and bypass to the Dr. no matter if it really is stuck you do not pick to have an infection, and in case you stuck yet another STD you pick to get that resolved instantly. save in ideas that's no longer about you anymore, you've a baby that needs you to be as healthful as attainable.

Answer 10

Keep trying dont loose hope!It will happen to you, my advice is dont worry about just forget the fact about conceiving when your making love and enjoy it Trust Me.....