My man and his friend always hang out and text each other like crazy. He don't even text me hardly. We don't do anything together. We don't hardly have sex no more either. Should I be worried? I have a kid with him and he won't even watch her most of the time! We been together for almost 3yrs. Plz help me figure this out...I need to know if it's possible he has someone else secretly or what possible?
2006-11-29 02:49:33 · 22 answers · asked by bubbleyumy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Throw his phone away and tell him to be a real man, take his parenting responsibility seriously, and become a real partner.
2006-11-29 02:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Jon O 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems he has lost some interest in you and he doesn't seem like a man he is acting like a child. Not very mature. I went through the same thing with my ex, the hanging out with friends 24/7 and not watching the kids like he should, and he was cheating onme.. not saying your man is cheatign but it doesn;t sound good. So you need to sit down and figure out what really make you happy and if you stlll want to be with him. I know you may love him but love is not always enouogh in a relationship i learned that the hard way. Just follow your heart. you'll know what to do. Oh and if you don't trust him that should answer you question
2006-11-29 02:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey mate.Recently been cheated on myself.I had noticed for about 3 weeks that he was acting all distant and totally being inattentive.Not calling or texting much.Finally he came over one night and said that he had had a one night stand,and he had spent the last 3 weeks worrying about how to tell me.Now in my case I believed the cheating scum and went home with him that night!What I should have done is ask him what was up when he firsat started acting all weird with me, and I think that's what you should do too. Hope it works out.
2006-11-29 03:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,if his friend is a woman and they're constantly hanging out and texting one another more than what is that the two of you should be doing together;then i would say more than likely yes he is.Now what are you going to do.Outsiders can give you their opinion only you have the ultimate choice.It's more painful when you stay,and it's still painful after the break-up but eventually that pain subsides.
2006-11-29 02:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is cheating on you. If you are not having sex and doing things that couples do, then why even be with him. Take your losses and move on. Now, this is my advice. You are going to have some extrea free time. I would use this time to getter a better education, especially in the grammar department, and make yourself one hell of a lady. Especially for your kid.
2006-11-29 02:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly and probably does have someone else. All the texting to his "friend" sounds bogus - it is probably another woman. You don't seem to be too happy - maybe you need to try to get your life heading in another direction for the benefit of both you and your daughter.
2006-11-29 02:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he may be doing something on the low. But you cant jump to conclusions either. I suggest you dont rock the boat unless you are really ready to come to terms with him cheating. He may not even be cheating he just may want some space. But can you handle the truth when it is presented to you.
2006-11-29 02:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by shann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear you're going through this. sounds like your man is somewhat immature and not committed to your relationship. i wouldn't think he's cheating necessarily, but he's sure not giving you the kind of loving, caring relationship you deserve. i would talk to him about your feelings that you don't feel he's interested in you anymore or that you think he might even be cheating and see if you can work things out together such that you can improve the situation between you.
2006-11-29 02:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by Kimmyq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a possibility that your man could be cheating on you. He may even have somebody else pregnant, but you should really just ask him "whats the deal with you"
2006-11-29 02:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by Te-Te 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say this too you... If you having doubts and your intuition is giving you something to be suspicious about along with his actions then you have to go with your heart. I know that it is hard but you are going to have to confront him and ask him what is going on with him. He may lie... Well most likely lie but you have been with him long enough to know when he is speaking the truth
2006-11-29 02:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by Laila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋