I have already told him that i am pregnant but he doesnt seem to care he swiftly left at the first sign. I am lost. . So not what
2006-11-29 02:14:57 · 21 answers · asked by mylovexoxo 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hit him for child support when the baby is born.
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2006-11-29 02:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Thanks for the Yahoo Jacket 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get through this! My daughter went through the same exact thing when she was 16. Lean on your family and friends for support and don't forget the pregancy crisis centers are there FOR YOU! They can help with counselling and supply baby items you will need. It turned out for the best for my daughter. She had 2 children out of wedlock. It was so much easier raising the one the child's father wasn't involved than the one where he was involved. Much less complicated and she could do what she wanted. And don't forget to call support enforcement to help you collect child support. If he thinks he can sneak out of that, he's got a rude awakening coming. Good luck. You will love being a mother.
2006-11-29 02:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pregnant with my second child. When I told my child's father that we were expecting again abortion was the first thing to come out of his mouth. He basically stopped talking to me and stopped coming to get his daughter. What I did was say f*** him and went on about my life. Now things are somewhat better but that doesn't mean anything. You can't live and make decisions for other people. Search within yourself and know that if you want your baby then what he does won't matter. Stay strong.
2006-11-29 02:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't given much in the way of details, but maybe he is in shock and needs a bit of time to digest this news? I take it the pregnancy wasn't planned..?
It depends really on what you mean by 'left'. If he says he's gone for good, then that's that, and you are in a bit of a fix. If he just needs a bit of space to think, because it can come as a huge shock, just give him time, and he'll come round.
Good luck!
2006-11-29 02:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by helly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by left at the first sign?
the news mightve come as a shock for him and he wasnt ready to deal with it at the moment so he left. try to have another talk with him.
but if he disappeared or rejected you both outright - well be brave and face your parents or friends. people who love you and will listen to you and most probably help you decide what to do. i hope you keep the baby though.
2006-11-29 02:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by rinkumi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might come around. I hope he does because if nothing else it's the right thing to do. (Stand up and be a man, etc.) But either way it is your life, and the decisions are ultimately yours to make. He SHOULD be there to help and support you, but you MUST go forward either way and determine what you want and need to do. Good luck!
2006-11-29 02:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him. most guys are *** holes like that!! just go on with ur life and take care of ur soon to come child. everything will be fine adn turn out ok but u need to make sure u r taking care of the baby and if not hten put it up for adoption there are tons of families who would love to adopt.
2006-11-29 03:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Bree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hearing someone is about to become a parent can be a frightening thing. Instead of judging him from his initial reaction, you need to give him some time. While your waiting for him to come around re-evaluate your relationship
2006-11-29 02:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All he cared was about laying you!
It's time to tell your faimly... they may shout at you at first, but they will support you and help you make a decision
Good luck and may all the hope left in the world be with you =]
2006-11-29 02:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by silvs 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ive been there and done that before , u will live, just don't give up, btw, i hope u got hispersonal information before he left. like drivers license #, social security # and his full name, because if u didn't he can be a little hard to track down if he chooses to try to hide and not pay child support
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2016-10-04 12:30:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋