I have been with Cindy for about 3 years and i have 2 secrets that i have kept from her and i was wondering when the best time would be to tell her these 2 things:
1st ive been selling my body to girls for the last 3 months for some extra dough i mean i have a job but i really needed money one weekend and i made like 800 dolla and then i was hooked
i dont think this is a problem because i have decided to stop but i feel she needs to know
2nd of all i have a friend named Charlie who i have been having intercourse with. i never questioned my sexuality, i always knew i was gay but when i met charlie my feelings were so strong. we have sex everyother day almost and we have talked about him moving into my house with me and Cindy. i need to tell her. i have feelings for Cindy. my heart yearns for her and the last thing i want to do is hurt her. i really think having a 3some in one house every night is so hot and charlie is turned on everytime i kiss Cindy. i need to know how to tell her!!
2006-11-29 02:08:46 · 9 answers · asked by rudi trudi phoenix gordon 7 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
the selling your body thing, whatever floats your boat, hell hope they were all hotties... and youve decided to stop which is good, and you maybe thought what you were doing was wrong toward your girl, and its good to know that you need to tell her. sex is cheating in my opinion but its not love, and love...well i wont get into that. charlie, now heres a different story, maybe she'll like having something extra in the sack every nite or other nite. just tell her how you feel and what youve done, and if she loves you she might be mad or sad or overly joyous but she'll keep you.
2006-11-29 03:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by .......... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no kind or gentle way you are going to break this to your girlfriend. Tell her there is problem in your relationship and it's all with you, from what you said, she has done nothing wrong. You need to accept full responsibility for your actions, not try and make out it's somehow partly her fault that you cheated on her and prostituted your self. If she forgives you, which I wouldn't expect, treasure that lady, you'll never find another like her. I have known triples that made a life together, one such in California has been together 20 years now, so hope is not lost, but those people were up front and open with each other from the start whereas you have violated Cindy's trust. I've never known anything good to come from deception, and a lie of omission is still a lie.
2006-11-29 04:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you need to tell your gf of three years that 1) you are a prostitute and 2) that you want your bf to move in so that you can have threesomes everynight.
hmm..That is not going to be an easy conversation. The best thing you can do is tell her how you feel about her and then let her have it. I hope it goes easy for you but, how would you feel if she came home and told you that she had been a prostitute and was having a daily trist with a friend?
I suspect that you are not going to have to worry about Cindy too much longer as the chances of her bailing are pretty high. If she does accept it all then you have a very understanding gf.
2006-11-29 02:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by saopaco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow sweetie that is huge. 1st of all you should tell her cuz that is big very serious thing r goin on in ur life right now and if u truly care for her tell her. There is no ease way to say it so i think u should just come out with it the best way u can BUT try and sound sincere as possible make sure u let her know the she is always gonna be first u have to make her feel special cuz she will be hurt at the fact that ur diggin sum dude!
2006-11-29 02:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i dont know what to say. but you do need to tell cindy big time. i think she has all the right to know. she needs someone that is really going to love her and respect her. you shouldnt be in a relationship once you started doing all this with millions of people. im not here to judge you, but i think you need to let cindy or change your ways....
2006-11-29 04:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lissett p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are hard work yes. however you have failed your relationship here, not Cindy. You went out and cheated. You did this with a guy and for money. you forgot your commitment to her. You are the one to blame here nto her. You owe her the truth all of it. However please note if I were her I would leave you. The sins you have done against your relationship are ungivable in my book. It is people like you that give love a bad name. You are the ones that hurt your loved ones and then wonder why they left. Well she will most likely leave you. Don't blame her, blame yourself.
2006-11-29 02:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your relationships don't suck . You do.
You have done everything to dis respect your self and those who care about you.
When you tell Cindy and Charlie about your disgusting life
you will have lost two Dear friends. and your dignity and respect
and what ever feelings they have about you are gone .
2006-11-29 02:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in case you quite love him, it is going to take a while for the relationship to be very sturdy. even although, if this befell to you for this form of great style of cases and look that the conflict would possibly no longer come to a determination, then, you'll be able to destroy him up. communique and spiritually is the biggest to relationships.
2016-12-13 16:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by spraggs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dirty slut. your like a community whore. all your gf See's is a facade of what you are. you discuss me. what to come over later and watch alien porn??
2006-11-29 02:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋